Comments for DivorceandFamilyMediationCenter.com http://divorceandfamilymediationcenter.com Legal Separation, Divorce & Family Mediation Thu, 17 Nov 2011 16:38:24 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 Comment on Separation/Divorce: Mediation – How long is this going to take? by Daniel Burns http://divorceandfamilymediationcenter.com/separationdivorce-mediation-how-long-is-this-going-to-take/comment-page-1/#comment-23335 Daniel Burns Thu, 17 Nov 2011 16:38:24 +0000 http://divorceandfamilymediationcenter.com/?p=1304#comment-23335 Ada, That was a very interesting article and is something that I have also experienced with the couples I work with. One difference I have noted is that they often do not communicate very well (which is the reason they are getting divorced in the first place) and when they have a "discussion" outside of the sessions they often go backwords. As a result I ususally suggest that they refrain from such discussions unless they believe they can be productive, which usually is not until both of them have emotionally adjusted to the idea of a divorce, as related in your examples. Thanks for sharing. Dan Ada,
That was a very interesting article and is something that I have also experienced with the couples I work with. One difference I have noted is that they often do not communicate very well (which is the reason they are getting divorced in the first place) and when they have a “discussion” outside of the sessions they often go backwords. As a result I ususally suggest that they refrain from such discussions unless they believe they can be productive, which usually is not until both of them have emotionally adjusted to the idea of a divorce, as related in your examples. Thanks for sharing.
Dan

]]> Comment on Separation/Divorce: “Raking Over the Coals” by Steven Ciantro http://divorceandfamilymediationcenter.com/separationdivorce-raking-over-the-coals/comment-page-1/#comment-20845 Steven Ciantro Sun, 16 Oct 2011 21:17:57 +0000 http://divorceandfamilymediationcenter.com/?p=1246#comment-20845 This is a very interesting article. In today's society one of the things that makes separation more difficult is how much debt has accrued during the marriage. With today's divorce rates being so high, couples might want to consider that one of the additional bonuses of living a debt free life during marriage, is that the fact is it will make seperating much easier should that time ever come. This is a very interesting article. In today’s society one of the things that
makes separation more difficult is how much debt has accrued during the marriage.
With today’s divorce rates being so high, couples might want to consider that one of the additional bonuses of living a debt free life during marriage, is that the fact is
it will make seperating much easier should that time ever come.

]]> Comment on Life Tips Post Separation/Divorce: The Post Separated, Single Parent … Couple by Heidi Bernstien-Krantz http://divorceandfamilymediationcenter.com/life-tips-post-separationdivorce-the-post-separated-single-parent-%e2%80%a6-couple-2/comment-page-1/#comment-20627 Heidi Bernstien-Krantz Thu, 13 Oct 2011 21:46:10 +0000 http://divorceandfamilymediationcenter.com/?p=1215#comment-20627 Your clients are very fortunate that you empower them to get very creative with solutions that work for parenting schedules. As a coach, "thinking out of the box" is who I am. Great guidence! Your clients are very fortunate that you empower them to get very creative with solutions that work for parenting schedules. As a coach, “thinking out of the box” is who I am. Great guidence!

]]> Comment on Separation/Divorce: “Raking Over the Coals” by Heidi Bernstien-Krantz http://divorceandfamilymediationcenter.com/separationdivorce-raking-over-the-coals/comment-page-1/#comment-20626 Heidi Bernstien-Krantz Thu, 13 Oct 2011 21:42:45 +0000 http://divorceandfamilymediationcenter.com/?p=1246#comment-20626 Extremely well said as always Ada! Fabulous creativity and insight. When I coach clients, I find that the more involved they become in creating a new life for themselves, the less committed they become to "raking over the coals." Extremely well said as always Ada! Fabulous creativity and insight. When I coach clients, I find that the more involved they become in creating a new life for themselves, the less committed they become to “raking over the coals.”

]]> Comment on Separation or Divorce: The Financial-Emotional Conundrum Part II by Heidi Bernstein-Krantz http://divorceandfamilymediationcenter.com/separation-or-divorce-the-financial-emotional-conundrum-part-ii/comment-page-1/#comment-16374 Heidi Bernstein-Krantz Thu, 25 Aug 2011 03:05:39 +0000 http://divorceandfamilymediationcenter.com/?p=1129#comment-16374 Wow Ada, good for you for bringing people together to brainstorm creative solutions to the problems that they share! Wow Ada, good for you for bringing people together to brainstorm creative solutions to the problems that they share!

]]> Comment on Life Tips Post Separation/Divorce: The Post Separated, Single Parent … Couple by Heidi Bernstein-Krantz http://divorceandfamilymediationcenter.com/life-tips-post-separationdivorce-the-post-separated-single-parent-%e2%80%a6-couple/comment-page-1/#comment-16373 Heidi Bernstein-Krantz Thu, 25 Aug 2011 03:03:11 +0000 http://divorceandfamilymediationcenter.com/?p=1186#comment-16373 These are issues that come up repeatedly with my coaching clients. Thank you Ada, for articulating the situation so incredibly well! These are issues that come up repeatedly with my coaching clients. Thank you Ada, for articulating the situation so incredibly well!

]]> Comment on Separation or Divorce: The Financial-Emotional Conundrum Part I by Heidi Bernstein-Krantz http://divorceandfamilymediationcenter.com/separation-or-divorce-the-financial-emotional-conundrum-part-i/comment-page-1/#comment-13580 Heidi Bernstein-Krantz Sun, 17 Jul 2011 15:31:21 +0000 http://divorceandfamilymediationcenter.com/?p=1108#comment-13580 Wow! Another thought provoking and highly insightful piece of work! If we can all keep the "together" concept in mind in all that we do, the possibilities are limitless! Wow! Another thought provoking and highly insightful piece of work! If we can all keep the “together” concept in mind in all that we do, the possibilities are limitless!

]]> Comment on Separation or Divorce: The “No Surprise” Ending by Heidi Bernstein-Krantz http://divorceandfamilymediationcenter.com/separation-or-divorce-the-%e2%80%9cno-surprise%e2%80%9d-ending/comment-page-1/#comment-13577 Heidi Bernstein-Krantz Sun, 17 Jul 2011 15:27:19 +0000 http://divorceandfamilymediationcenter.com/?p=1082#comment-13577 Extremely wise and inspiring words! I look forward to reading more! Extremely wise and inspiring words! I look forward to reading more!

]]> Comment on Separation or Divorce: The “No Surprise” Ending by Randi Busse http://divorceandfamilymediationcenter.com/separation-or-divorce-the-%e2%80%9cno-surprise%e2%80%9d-ending/comment-page-1/#comment-13152 Randi Busse Wed, 13 Jul 2011 01:49:39 +0000 http://divorceandfamilymediationcenter.com/?p=1082#comment-13152 As someone who has gone through a divorce using mediation, all I can say is you're crazy to do it any other way. When you have the right person facilitating, everyone's best interests are addressed. Divorce doesn't have to be a four-letter word. Great article Ada. As someone who has gone through a divorce using mediation, all I can say is you’re crazy to do it any other way. When you have the right person facilitating, everyone’s best interests are addressed. Divorce doesn’t have to be a four-letter word. Great article Ada.

]]> Comment on Separation or Divorce: The “No Surprise” Ending by Beth Meixner http://divorceandfamilymediationcenter.com/separation-or-divorce-the-%e2%80%9cno-surprise%e2%80%9d-ending/comment-page-1/#comment-13118 Beth Meixner Tue, 12 Jul 2011 16:28:31 +0000 http://divorceandfamilymediationcenter.com/?p=1082#comment-13118 Hi Ada, I thought your blog was excellent - very professionally designed with interesting stories. Kudos. Regards, Beth Meixner Hi Ada,

I thought your blog was excellent – very professionally designed with interesting stories. Kudos.

Regards,
Beth Meixner

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