Pre-Cana – Epilogue Part 2

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Ada L. Hasloecher2019-03-28T22:58:53-04:00Categories: Divorce/Separation Emotions, Finances & Divorce, General, Marital Mediation, Perspective, Two|Tags: Communicating Pre-Marriage, Communication, Compadability with Partner Pre-Marriage, Do You Like Your Partner?, Marriage as Partnership, Marriage Preparation, Martial Expectations, Pre-Cana, Preconceptions of Family|2 Comments

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Heidi Bernstein-Krantz March 13, 2013 at 7:33 pm

Ada,your insights are as usual, right on target and well articulated. I present many similar principles at my coaching seminars where we discuss approaching love with a plan, (the second time around). Random is for movies, right? Phenomenal blog!
Bob Ranieri March 25, 2013 at 9:10 am

Great comments Ada,
One quote I keep in mind when talking to couples (regarding changing each other) is from Dr Wayne Dyer, “In any relationship when two people become one, the end result is 2 half people”

"Almost from the date we signed the Settlement Agreement, it was like a weight was lifted off my shoulders. For the first time in I don’t know how many years, Brenda and I can have a conversation that is not fraught with tension. We can talk peacefully and respectfully to each other - it’s easier to be kind because the hostility is gone. I am not sure if the word “friends” applies but I would say the caring remains, and I am able to be supportive without taking ownership of problems and challenges. I am pleased to say that Brenda has become more than serviceably competent, even in the matter of her finances which she agonized over so profusely. I again thank you for all you did in helping us get through one of the hardest things either of us had to do. There is a peaceful life on the other side. I am glad to say that I am quite pleased that we can both live our lives now without the rancor and animosity. You did a yeoman’s work on our behalf and I, for one am grateful."

Mark H.

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