Separation/Divorce: Irked

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Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:36-05:00Categories: Divorce/Separation Emotions, Family & Divorce, Mediation Process, Perspective, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Two|Tags: Agreement, Communication, Divorce Mediation, Separation Agreements|2 Comments

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Steven Ciantro February 23, 2012 at 4:24 pm

You are correct. We all have our share of personal quirks, likes and dislikes. I encounter
these same issues when helping people to try and think rationally about their debt issues, not always easy.We all would do well to strive for a live and let live approach to life.
I hope this made sense.
Sandra Jo Lane March 16, 2012 at 11:51 pm

Really enjoyed reading what you wrote. Find myself peeved, especially, too, by the use of “li-berry” and the reluctance to carefully and conscientiously enunciate “library”. Often wonder at the carelessness…

Frequently think of issues with my patients which make little sense – comparable to the settlement on quarter of a million dollar components, and struggling simultaneously over the equivalent of one hundred dollars…

Understanding of some of the less sensible things we do comes slowly – but, we all don’t make sense all the time – thank you for the thoughtfulness!

"Almost from the date we signed the Settlement Agreement, it was like a weight was lifted off my shoulders. For the first time in I don’t know how many years, Brenda and I can have a conversation that is not fraught with tension. We can talk peacefully and respectfully to each other - it’s easier to be kind because the hostility is gone. I am not sure if the word “friends” applies but I would say the caring remains, and I am able to be supportive without taking ownership of problems and challenges. I am pleased to say that Brenda has become more than serviceably competent, even in the matter of her finances which she agonized over so profusely. I again thank you for all you did in helping us get through one of the hardest things either of us had to do. There is a peaceful life on the other side. I am glad to say that I am quite pleased that we can both live our lives now without the rancor and animosity. You did a yeoman’s work on our behalf and I, for one am grateful."

Mark H.

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