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Separation/Divorce: My Lawyer Said . . .

My Lawyer Said . . .

How many times have I heard the words: “Well, my lawyer said . . .” while mediating a challenging couple? When that ball gets lobbed over the net, it tends to indicate one or more of the following scenarios:Ada Hasloecher Divorce Mediator

  • That someone is not happy with the direction things are going thus far
  • They have an unconscious wish for rescue
  • Or they may merely be reciting their “legal entitlement” as a way of getting what they want.

I have a great deal of respect for many matrimonial attorneys. I can’t imagine how difficult it must be to advocate for someone who may have unrealistic expectations about the legal process and/or irrational notions about the outcome of a litigated divorce. When emotions are high and the fight or flight instincts are at unparalleled levels, trying to bring calm and reason to the storm is no easy task. It’s no wonder legal fees can be so high. Read the rest of this entry »

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Couples considering divorce or legal separation need answers to their questions. Read the rest of this entry »
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The Divorce and Family Mediation Center, LLC & Ada L Hasloecher provide divorce mediation, legal separation mediation, and divorce advise services for couples that are considering a divorce or legal separation in Long Island, LI, New York.

Divorce and Legal Separation Services are available in the following towns & cities in Suffolk County New York - Melville, NY 11747, 11775, East Northport, NY 11731, Hauppauge, NY 11788, Lake Grove, NY 11755, Medford, NY 11763, Brentwood, NY 11717, Greenlawn, NY 11470, Stony Brook, NY 11790, 11794, West Babylon, NY 11704, 11707, Commack, NY 11725, Patchogue, NY 11772, West Islip, NY 11795, Ronkonkoma, NY 11779, Shirley, NY 11967, Coram, NY 11727, Copiague, NY 11726, Centereach, NY 11720, Huntington Station, NY 11746, 11750, Islip, NY 11751, Islip Terrace, NY 11752, Centerport, NY 11721, Holtsville, NY 00501, 00544, 11742, Huntington, NY 11743, North Babylon, NY 11703, Calverton, NY, 11933, Islandia, NY 11749, 11760, Moriches, NY 11955, Bellmore, NY 11710, Lindenhurst, NY 11757, Saint James, NY 11780, Babylon, NY 11702, Smithtown, NY, 11787, Miller Place, NY 11764, Nesconset, NY 11767, Kings Park, NY 11754, Westhampton, NY 11977, Blue Point, NY 11715, Rocky Point, NY 11778, Bay Shore, NY 11706, Central Islip, NY 11722, Sayville, NY 11782, Middle Island, NY 11953, Bridgehampton, NY 11932, Selden NY, 11784, Yaphank, NY 11980, Ridge, NY 11961, Wading River, NY 11797, Bohemia, NY 11716, Sound Beach, NY 11789, Deer Park, NY 11729, Riverhead, NY 11901, Cutchogue, NY 11935, West Sayville, NY 11796, Mastic, NY, 11950, East Quogue, NY 11942.

Ada Hasloecher is a Divorce Mediator and provides affordable Legal Separation and Divorce services in the following towns & cities in Nassau County, New York - Levittown, NY 11756, Hicksville, NY 11801, 11802, 11815, 11819, 11854, 11855, Plainview, NY 11803, Lynbrook. NY 11563, Garden City, NY 11530, 11531, 11535, 11536, 11599, Roslyn Heights, NY 11577, East Meadow, NY 11554, Elmont, NY 11003, Mineola, NY 11501, New Hyde Park, NY 11040, 11041, 11042, 11043, 11044, 11099, Massapequa , NY 11758, Oceanside, NY 11572, Hempstead, NY 11549, 11550, 11551, Floral Park, NY 11001, 11002, Westbury, NY 11590, 11594, 11595, 11597, Freeport, NY 11520, Great Neck NY, 11020, 11021, 11022, 11023, 11024, 11025, 11026, 11027, Uniondale, NY 11553, 11555, 11556, Albertson, NY  11507, Syosset, NY 11773, 11791, Island Park, 11558, Valley Stream, NY 11580, 11581, 11582, Wantagh, NY 11793, Woodbury, NY 11797, Manhasset, NY 11030, Baldwin NY, 11510, Merrick, NY 11566, Jericho, NY 11753, 11853, Rockville Centre, NY 11570, 11571, 11592, Bethpage, NY 11714, Williston Park, NY 11596, Roslyn, NY 11576, East Rockaway, NY 11518, East Norwich, NY 11732, Farmingdale 11735, 11736, 11737, 11774, Malverne, NY 11565, Woodmere, NY 11598, Glenwood Landing, NY 11547, Roosevelt, NY 11575, Franklin Square, NY 11010, Carle Place, 11514, Sea Cliff, NY 11579, Port Washington, NY 11050, 11051, 11052, 11053, 11054, 11055, Glen Cove, NY 11542, Massapequa Park , 11762, and Brooklyn NY.

Legal Separation, and Divorce Mediation are available through Ada Hasloecher, Divorce Mediator, and the www.DivorceandFamilyMediationCenter.com in the following towns & cities in Queens County, New York - Flushing, NY 11351, 11352, 11354, 11355, 11358, 11367, 11371, 11381, 11390, Forest Hills, NY 11375, Kew Gardens, NY 11415, Rego Park, NY 11374, Floral Park, NY 11005, Ozone Park, NY 11416, 11417, Corona, NY 11368, Woodhaven, NY 11421, Bayside, NY 11359, 11360, 11361, Springfield Gardens, NY 11413, Little Neck, NY 11362, 11363, Glen Oaks, NY 11004, Richmond Hill, NY 11418, Fresh Meadows, NY 11365, 11366, Bellerose, NY 11426, Whitestone, NY 11357, Howard Beach, NY 11414, South Ozone Park, NY 11420, Oakland Gardens, NY 11364, Far Rockaway, NY 11690, 11691, 11693, 11695, Hollis, NY 11423.