Separation or Divorce – The First Step

In any major life decision, the first step is always the hardest.  You can spend hours weighing the pros and cons, researching on the Internet, talking to friends and family. . . but eventually you have to take that first step toward resolution.

In a separation/divorce situation there are a number of decisions to be made, the first of which is whether to try mediation or go through litigation.  Not sure of your options?  Then the first step is to pick up the phone and make the call.

When you call the Divorce and Family Mediation Center, you will get a comprehensive overview of the mediation process:

Advantages of mediation over litigation:

• A less contentious way to deal with separation/divorce
• A less expensive way to deal with separation/divorce
• A less time consuming process than litigation
• A less stressful process for the entire family, especially for the children

Topics/Issues that will be discussed and resolved:

• Children – custody, child support, parenting plan… just to name a few
• Finances – equitable distribution of both the assets and debts
• House/Possessions – what to do with them, how to divide them

Different types of agreements that will result from the mediation:

• Separation Agreement
• Stipulation of Settlement

Head reeling?  At first blush most people are thinking “Oh, I just have to separate from my spouse right now” and not thinking about all the little details that have to be worked out. That first call will make you aware of those details and give you the information you need to make an informed decision so that you can move forward.

Thinking about a Separation or Divorce?  Take the first step.  Make the call.