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Divorce Mediator / Center Founder Divorce & Family Mediation Center, LLC Phone: 631-585-5210 eMail: Info@DFMCLI.com 888 Veterans Memorial Highway Suite 500 Hauppauge, NY 11788 Suffolk and Nassau Counties, Long Island, New York

Are You Ready to Be a Champion in Your Marriage? [VIDEO]
Are You Ready to Be a Champion in Your Marriage? [VIDEO]

Are You Ready to Be a Champion in Your Marriage? [VIDEO]

A strong marriage isn’t just about love and shared [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2026-10-29T09:50:48-04:00Categories: Divorce Mediation, Videos|Tags: Conflict Resolution, Couples Communication, Marriage Expectations, Premarital Mediation, Relationship Success|0 Comments

Second Marriages & Blended Families: The Conversation Every Couple Needs Before Saying “I Do” [VIDEO]
Second Marriages & Blended Families: The Conversation Every Couple Needs Before Saying “I Do” [VIDEO]

Second Marriages & Blended Families: The Conversation Every Couple Needs Before Saying “I Do” [VIDEO]

Have you discussed how holidays will work, co-parenting with [...]

Are Your Dreams, Hopes, and Expectations for Marriage Aligned? [VIDEO]
Are Your Dreams, Hopes, and Expectations for Marriage Aligned? [VIDEO]

Are Your Dreams, Hopes, and Expectations for Marriage Aligned? [VIDEO]

This premarital mediation discussion emphasizes the importance of couples [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2026-07-29T17:58:13-04:00Categories: Marital Mediation, Mediation Process, Videos|Tags: Marriage Communication Tips, Premarital Mediation Services, Prepare for Marriage, Relationship Advice|0 Comments

Love vs. Compatibility: A Bird May Love a Fish, But Where Would They Live? [VIDEO]
Love vs. Compatibility: A Bird May Love a Fish, But Where Would They Live? [VIDEO]

Love vs. Compatibility: A Bird May Love a Fish, But Where Would They Live? [VIDEO]

Character matters. Observe how your partner treats people and [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2026-07-22T13:01:47-04:00Categories: Divorce Mediation, Marital Mediation, Videos|Tags: Communication, Compatibility, Conflict Resolution, Couples Communication, Healthy Relationships, Love, Marriage Advice, Marriage Success, Relationship Expectations|0 Comments

Why Modern Couples Need Premarital Mediation Before Saying “I Do” [VIDEO]
Why Modern Couples Need Premarital Mediation Before Saying “I Do” [VIDEO]

Why Modern Couples Need Premarital Mediation Before Saying “I Do” [VIDEO]

Premarital mediation helps modern couples prepare for marriage by [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2026-07-15T16:00:30-04:00Categories: Divorce Mediation, Marital Mediation, Videos|Tags: Conflict Resolution, Counseling, Couples Communication, Healthy Marriage, Marriage Planning, Marriage Preparation, Premarital Mediation, Relationship Communication|0 Comments

A Bird and a Fish: The Truth About Love & Compatibility [VIDEO]
A Bird and a Fish: The Truth About Love & Compatibility [VIDEO]

A Bird and a Fish: The Truth About Love & Compatibility [VIDEO]

This video explains that love and compatibility are not the [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2026-06-16T20:13:19-04:00Categories: Marital Mediation, Mediation Process, Videos|Tags: Couples Communication, Healthy Relationships, Marriage Compatibility, Marriage Preparation, Premarital Counseling, Premarital Mediation, Relationship Advice, Relationship Compatibility|0 Comments

BIG THANKS to the WAXING TEAM! [VIDEO]
BIG THANKS to the WAXING TEAM! [VIDEO]

BIG THANKS to the WAXING TEAM! [VIDEO]

In this video, Ada reflects on a memorable Olympic [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2026-06-11T14:14:42-04:00Categories: Divorce Mediation, Marital Mediation, Mediation Process, Videos|Tags: Co-Parenting, Collaborative Divorce, Conflict Resolution, Divorce Mediation, Family Mediation, Legal Mediation Support, Parenting Plans, Premarital Mediation, Relationship Communication, Separation Agreements|0 Comments

You Had the Talk … Now What? [VIDEO]
You Had the Talk … Now What? [VIDEO]

You Had the Talk … Now What? [VIDEO]

After deciding when, where, and how to have a [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2026-06-03T13:52:00-04:00Categories: Divorce Mediation, Marital Mediation, Mediation Process, Videos|Tags: BetterRelationships, CommunicationSkills, ConflictManagement, ConflictResolution, CouplesCommunication, EmotionalIntelligence, HealthyCommunication, MediationMatters, MindfulCommunication, PersonalGrowth, RelationshipAdvice, SelfImprovement|0 Comments

Conflict Isn’t the Problem — How You Handle It Is [VIDEO]
Conflict Isn’t the Problem — How You Handle It Is [VIDEO]

Conflict Isn’t the Problem — How You Handle It Is [VIDEO]

When resolving conflict, focus on how you have the [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2026-06-03T13:50:59-04:00Categories: Divorce Mediation, Marital Mediation, Mediation Process, Videos|Tags: Building Stronger Relationships, Conflict Resolution Techniques, Self Awareness|0 Comments

Conflict Resolution for Couples: What Happens After the Conversation [VIDEO]
Conflict Resolution for Couples: What Happens After the Conversation [VIDEO]

Conflict Resolution for Couples: What Happens After the Conversation [VIDEO]

In this final installment of my conflict resolution series, I [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2026-06-03T13:51:22-04:00Categories: Divorce Mediation, Marital Mediation, Mediation Process, Videos|Tags: Conflict Resolution, Divorce Mediation Support, Premarital Mediation, Resolve Arguments|0 Comments

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"Almost from the date we signed the Settlement Agreement, it was like a weight was lifted off my shoulders. For the first time in I don’t know how many years, Brenda and I can have a conversation that is not fraught with tension. We can talk peacefully and respectfully to each other - it’s easier to be kind because the hostility is gone. I am not sure if the word “friends” applies but I would say the caring remains, and I am able to be supportive without taking ownership of problems and challenges. I am pleased to say that Brenda has become more than serviceably competent, even in the matter of her finances which she agonized over so profusely. I again thank you for all you did in helping us get through one of the hardest things either of us had to do. There is a peaceful life on the other side. I am glad to say that I am quite pleased that we can both live our lives now without the rancor and animosity. You did a yeoman’s work on our behalf and I, for one am grateful."

Mark H.

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