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About Ada L. Hasloecher

Divorce Mediator / Center Founder Divorce & Family Mediation Center, LLC Phone: 631-585-5210 eMail: Info@DFMCLI.com 888 Veterans Memorial Highway Suite 500 Hauppauge, NY 11788 Suffolk and Nassau Counties, Long Island, New York

Premarital Mediation for Second Marriages: Finances, Kids, and Expectations [VIDEO]
Premarital Mediation for Second Marriages: Finances, Kids, and Expectations [VIDEO]

Premarital Mediation for Second Marriages: Finances, Kids, and Expectations [VIDEO]

If you’re considering a second marriage, premarital mediation is [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2026-04-21T10:52:21-04:00Categories: Marital Mediation, Videos|Tags: Asset Protection, Blended Families, Co-parenting After Divorce, Divorce Mediation, Family Mediation, Marriage Mediation vs Litigation, Premarital Finances, Premarital Mediation, Remarriage With Children, Second Marriage Planning|0 Comments

Second Marriage? Why Premarital Mediation Matters. [VIDEO]
Second Marriage? Why Premarital Mediation Matters. [VIDEO]

Second Marriage? Why Premarital Mediation Matters. [VIDEO]

Premarital mediation is a smart choice for couples entering [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2026-04-21T10:52:13-04:00Categories: Divorce Mediation, Finances & Divorce, Marital Mediation, Videos|Tags: Blended Families, Co-Parenting, Divorce Mediation, Family Mediation, Financial Planning Before Marriage, Healthy Marriage Communication, Premarital Mediation, Prenuptial Agreement, Second Marriage, Stepfamily Planning|0 Comments

Before You Say “I Do,” Are You and Your Partner on the Same Page About Who’s Doing What Around the House? [VIDEO]
Before You Say “I Do,” Are You and Your Partner on the Same Page About Who’s Doing What Around the House? [VIDEO]

Before You Say “I Do,” Are You and Your Partner on the Same Page About Who’s Doing What Around the House? [VIDEO]

Premarital mediation should include an honest conversation about household [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2026-04-21T10:51:58-04:00Categories: Divorce Mediation, Marital Mediation, Mediation Process, Videos|Tags: Conflict Prevention in Marriage, Couples Mediation, Division of Labor, Healthy Marriage Planning, Marriage Communication, Premarital Mediation, Preparing for Marriage|0 Comments

Premarital Mediation: Understanding Your Argument & Fighting Styles Before Marriage [VIDEO]
Premarital Mediation: Understanding Your Argument & Fighting Styles Before Marriage [VIDEO]

Premarital Mediation: Understanding Your Argument & Fighting Styles Before Marriage [VIDEO]

Have you discussed how you handle conflict with your [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2026-02-11T12:45:52-05:00Categories: Marital Mediation, Mediation Process, Videos|Tags: Communication Before Marriage, Marriage Preparation, Mediation for Couples, Premarital Mediation, Relationship Triggers Resolving Conflict|0 Comments

Premarital Mediation: Where Will You Live—And What Happens When Life Changes? [VIDEO]
Premarital Mediation: Where Will You Live—And What Happens When Life Changes? [VIDEO]

Premarital Mediation: Where Will You Live—And What Happens When Life Changes? [VIDEO]

Premarital mediation isn’t just about finances or children—it’s also [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2026-02-11T12:45:07-05:00Categories: Marital Mediation, Videos|Tags: Decision Making, Family Mediation, Marriage Planning, Premarital Mediation|0 Comments

Smart Planning: Finances, Family Contributions, and Retirement Before Marriage [VIDEO]
Smart Planning: Finances, Family Contributions, and Retirement Before Marriage [VIDEO]

Smart Planning: Finances, Family Contributions, and Retirement Before Marriage [VIDEO]

This message highlights key financial conversations couples should have [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2026-02-11T12:44:33-05:00Categories: Divorce Mediation, Family & Divorce, Finances & Divorce, Videos|Tags: 401(k), Couples' Finances, Family Financial Support, Financial Planning for Couples, Marital Property, Premarital Assets, Premarital Counseling, Premarital Mediation, Retirement Accounts, Separate Property|0 Comments

Before You Marry: Aligning on Whether to Have Children [VIDEO]
Before You Marry: Aligning on Whether to Have Children [VIDEO]

Before You Marry: Aligning on Whether to Have Children [VIDEO]

In premarital mediation, the topic of children is essential. [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2026-02-11T12:44:23-05:00Categories: Divorce Mediation, Family & Divorce, Marital Mediation, Mediation Process, Videos|Tags: Conflict Resolution for Couples, Family Mediator, Fertility Challenges, Healthy Marriage Foundation, IVF Discussion for Couples, Long-Term Relationship Planning, Marriage Expectations, Mediation Services, Premarital Guidance, Relationship Negotiation|0 Comments

Smart Planning: Finances, Family Contributions, and Retirement Before Marriage [VIDEO]
Smart Planning: Finances, Family Contributions, and Retirement Before Marriage [VIDEO]

Smart Planning: Finances, Family Contributions, and Retirement Before Marriage [VIDEO]

This message highlights key financial conversations couples should have [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2026-02-11T12:44:14-05:00Categories: Divorce Mediation, Videos|Tags: 401(k), Couples' Finances, Down Payment Gift or Loan, Family Financial Support, Financial Planning for Couples, Marital Property, Premarital Assets, Premarital Counseling, Premarital Mediation, Retirement Accounts, Separate Property, Shared Expenses|0 Comments

Talking About Money Expectations Before Saying “I do” is Crucial for a Healthy Relationship [VIDEO]
Talking About Money Expectations Before Saying “I do” is Crucial for a Healthy Relationship [VIDEO]

Talking About Money Expectations Before Saying “I do” is Crucial for a Healthy Relationship [VIDEO]

Money, often shaped by childhood experiences and family [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2025-12-30T17:46:23-05:00Categories: Divorce Mediation, Marital Mediation, Mediation Process, Videos|Tags: Avoiding conflict, Couples Counseling, Financial communication, Marriage prep, Money habits, Money mindset, Premarital Mediation, Relationship triggers|0 Comments

Planning vs. Spontaneity: A Premarital Mediation Must-Discuss Topic [VIDEO]
Planning vs. Spontaneity: A Premarital Mediation Must-Discuss Topic [VIDEO]

Planning vs. Spontaneity: A Premarital Mediation Must-Discuss Topic [VIDEO]

In this video, we explore how differences in planning [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2025-12-30T17:41:12-05:00Categories: Divorce Mediation, Marital Mediation, Videos|Tags: Communication, Conflict Prevention, Couples Counseling, Healthy Marriage, Marriage Advice, Marriage Planning, Planning vs Spontaneity, Premarital Mediation, Relationship Differences, Relationship Tips|0 Comments

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"Almost from the date we signed the Settlement Agreement, it was like a weight was lifted off my shoulders. For the first time in I don’t know how many years, Brenda and I can have a conversation that is not fraught with tension. We can talk peacefully and respectfully to each other - it’s easier to be kind because the hostility is gone. I am not sure if the word “friends” applies but I would say the caring remains, and I am able to be supportive without taking ownership of problems and challenges. I am pleased to say that Brenda has become more than serviceably competent, even in the matter of her finances which she agonized over so profusely. I again thank you for all you did in helping us get through one of the hardest things either of us had to do. There is a peaceful life on the other side. I am glad to say that I am quite pleased that we can both live our lives now without the rancor and animosity. You did a yeoman’s work on our behalf and I, for one am grateful."

Mark H.

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