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About Ada L. Hasloecher

Divorce Mediator / Center Founder Divorce & Family Mediation Center, LLC Phone: 631-585-5210 eMail: Info@DFMCLI.com 888 Veterans Memorial Highway Suite 500 Hauppauge, NY 11788 Suffolk and Nassau Counties, Long Island, New York

College Education for Your Children After Divorce Part 3 (video)
College Education for Your Children After Divorce Part 3 (video)

College Education for Your Children After Divorce Part 3 (video)

Most parents, if they're planning to pay for [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2023-10-12T12:29:38-04:00Categories: Children & Divorce, Divorce Mediation, Finances & Divorce, Videos|Tags: 529 College Savings Account, Divorce, Financing College After Divorce, Mediation, Separation|0 Comments

College Education for Your Children Part 2 (video)
College Education for Your Children Part 2 (video)

College Education for Your Children Part 2 (video)

Even if your children are young, you need [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2023-09-28T14:20:37-04:00Categories: Children & Divorce, Parenting, Post Separation/Divorce, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Videos|Tags: College Education, Divorce, Divorce and College, Mediation, Planning for Your Child’s Education, Separation|0 Comments

Parenting Lessons from the Wrens (video)
Parenting Lessons from the Wrens (video)

Parenting Lessons from the Wrens (video)

In this video, we contrast helping your children [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2023-09-11T11:40:03-04:00Categories: Children & Divorce, Videos|Tags: College Prep, College-age Children, Divorce, Life Skills, Mediation, Separation|0 Comments

Do You Know Why That First Relationship Didn’t Work? (Video)
Do You Know Why That First Relationship Didn’t Work? (Video)

Do You Know Why That First Relationship Didn’t Work? (Video)

Once you've gone through the mediation and signed [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2023-09-08T13:24:59-04:00Categories: Post Separation/Divorce, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Videos|Tags: Dating After Divorce, Relationships|0 Comments

Different Parenting Styles? The Children Will Adjust (video)
Different Parenting Styles? The Children Will Adjust (video)

Different Parenting Styles? The Children Will Adjust (video)

We live in a world of hyperbole — [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2023-08-25T10:13:27-04:00Categories: Children & Divorce, Divorce Mediation, Family & Divorce, Parenting, Post Separation/Divorce, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Videos|Tags: Children of Divorce, Divorce, Hyperbole, Mediation, Parenting Styles, Separation|0 Comments

Snarky and Snippy and Snipey, Oh My! (Video)
Snarky and Snippy and Snipey, Oh My! (Video)

Snarky and Snippy and Snipey, Oh My! (Video)

In my last video, I discussed a quote [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2023-07-21T11:46:44-04:00Categories: Divorce Mediation, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Videos|Tags: Communication, Divorce, Effective Communication, Mediation, Separation|0 Comments

If Lincoln Could Do It, So Can We! (Video)
If Lincoln Could Do It, So Can We! (Video)

If Lincoln Could Do It, So Can We! (Video)

A quote from President Lincoln noted in [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2023-07-12T13:49:49-04:00Categories: Divorce Mediation, Perspective, Videos|Tags: Divorce, Doris Kearn Goodwin, Forbearance, Good Natured, Mediation, Separation|0 Comments

Celebrating Twenty Years as a Divorce and Family Mediator (Video)
Celebrating Twenty Years as a Divorce and Family Mediator (Video)

Celebrating Twenty Years as a Divorce and Family Mediator (Video)

This month, June of 2023, marks 20 years since [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2023-06-21T15:33:24-04:00Categories: Divorce Mediation, Family & Divorce, Videos|Tags: Divorce, Divorce and Family Mediation Center, Divorce Mediator, Mediation, Separation|0 Comments

The NYS Council on Divorce Mediation Celebrates 40 Years (video)
The NYS Council on Divorce Mediation Celebrates 40 Years (video)

The NYS Council on Divorce Mediation Celebrates 40 Years (video)

For the first time since 2019, the [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2023-06-08T14:20:07-04:00Categories: Children & Divorce, Divorce Mediation, Family & Divorce, Mediation Process, Parenting, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Videos|Tags: Divorce, Matrimonial Judges, Mediation, New York State Council on Divorce Mediation, NY Divorce Statute, NYSCDM, Separation|0 Comments

Timing is Everything! (video)
Timing is Everything! (video)

Timing is Everything! (video)

Given the world we live in, I was impressed [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2023-05-22T07:33:30-04:00Categories: Divorce Mediation, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Videos|Tags: Abraham Lincoln, Divorce, Doris Kearns Goodwin, Forbearance, Mediation, Separation, Teddy Roosevelt|0 Comments

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"Almost from the date we signed the Settlement Agreement, it was like a weight was lifted off my shoulders. For the first time in I don’t know how many years, Brenda and I can have a conversation that is not fraught with tension. We can talk peacefully and respectfully to each other - it’s easier to be kind because the hostility is gone. I am not sure if the word “friends” applies but I would say the caring remains, and I am able to be supportive without taking ownership of problems and challenges. I am pleased to say that Brenda has become more than serviceably competent, even in the matter of her finances which she agonized over so profusely. I again thank you for all you did in helping us get through one of the hardest things either of us had to do. There is a peaceful life on the other side. I am glad to say that I am quite pleased that we can both live our lives now without the rancor and animosity. You did a yeoman’s work on our behalf and I, for one am grateful."

Mark H.