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About Ada L. Hasloecher

Divorce Mediator / Center Founder Divorce & Family Mediation Center, LLC Phone: 631-585-5210 eMail: Info@DFMCLI.com 888 Veterans Memorial Highway Suite 500 Hauppauge, NY 11788 Suffolk and Nassau Counties, Long Island, New York

What Every Mediator Needs: Compassion, Competency & Courage [VIDEO]
What Every Mediator Needs: Compassion, Competency & Courage [VIDEO]

What Every Mediator Needs: Compassion, Competency & Courage [VIDEO]

As a mediator, I have found that there are three [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2021-02-02T10:15:02-05:00Categories: Divorce Mediation, General, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Videos|Tags: Compassion, Competency, Courage, Divorce, Empathy, Mediation, Separation|1 Comment

No Charge for the Guts! [VIDEO]
No Charge for the Guts! [VIDEO]

No Charge for the Guts! [VIDEO]

I was sharing with my mom the trials, tribulations, [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2021-01-18T07:40:44-05:00Categories: Divorce Mediation, Family & Divorce, Finances & Divorce, Mediation Process, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Videos|Tags: Divorce, Mediation, Separation|0 Comments

Responsibility and Obligation — What is the Difference? [VIDEO]
Responsibility and Obligation — What is the Difference? [VIDEO]

Responsibility and Obligation — What is the Difference? [VIDEO]

Going through a divorce results in a change to [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2021-01-05T14:36:49-05:00Categories: Children & Divorce, Divorce Mediation, Family & Divorce, Parenting, Post Separation/Divorce, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Videos|Tags: Children, Co-Parenting, Divorce, Mediation, Obligation, Responsibility, Separation|0 Comments

May you have joy…
May you have joy…

May you have joy…

My dear friends, clients and colleagues, What a year! [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2020-12-17T08:02:34-05:00Categories: General, Perspective|Tags: Holidays, Peace, Season's Greetings|0 Comments

It’s Time to Play the Hand [VIDEO]
It’s Time to Play the Hand [VIDEO]

It’s Time to Play the Hand [VIDEO]

We all have times in our lives when we hesitate [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2020-12-15T06:42:02-05:00Categories: Divorce/Separation Emotions, Family & Divorce, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Videos|Tags: Decisions, Divorce, Hard Decisions, Making Decisions, Mediation, Separation, Take the Plunge|0 Comments

How Mediation Decisions Are Like Choosing a Paint Color [VIDEO]
How Mediation Decisions Are Like Choosing a Paint Color [VIDEO]

How Mediation Decisions Are Like Choosing a Paint Color [VIDEO]

Have you done any painting lately? While the [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2020-12-03T00:13:33-05:00Categories: Divorce Mediation, Family & Divorce, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Videos|Tags: Decisions, Divorce, Finances, Mediation, Parenting Plan, Separation, Settlement|0 Comments

A Judgement Free Zone Continued [VIDEO]
A Judgement Free Zone Continued [VIDEO]

A Judgement Free Zone Continued [VIDEO]

This video continues the discussion about how mediation is [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2020-11-17T07:03:39-05:00Categories: Divorce Mediation, Family & Divorce, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Videos|Tags: Assessment, Divorce, Informed Decisions, Judgment, Judgment Free, Mediation, Separation|0 Comments

Mediation: A Judgment-Free Zone [VIDEO]
Mediation: A Judgment-Free Zone [VIDEO]

Mediation: A Judgment-Free Zone [VIDEO]

As human beings, we are wired to make judgments [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2020-11-03T10:25:56-05:00Categories: Divorce Mediation, Mediation Process, Mediation Success Stories, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Videos|Tags: Assessment, Divorce, Informed Decisions, Judgment, Judgment Free, Mediation, Separation|0 Comments

Consequences of Living Together Post Settlement Agreement [VIDEO]
Consequences of Living Together Post Settlement Agreement [VIDEO]

Consequences of Living Together Post Settlement Agreement [VIDEO]

Can we continue to live in the house together [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2020-10-13T14:48:50-04:00Categories: Divorce/Separation Emotions, Family & Divorce, Mediation Process, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Videos|Tags: Consequences, Divorce, Divorce Mediation, Divorce Settlement, Living Together, Post Divorce, Separation|0 Comments

The Significant Other – Part 2 [VIDEO]
The Significant Other – Part 2 [VIDEO]

The Significant Other – Part 2 [VIDEO]

In my last video on the subject of significant [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2020-09-29T07:47:08-04:00Categories: Children & Divorce, Divorce Mediation, Divorce/Separation Emotions, Family & Divorce, Mediation Process, Parenting, Videos|Tags: Children, Communication, Divorce, Divorce Mediation, Emotions, Separation, Significant Other|0 Comments

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"Almost from the date we signed the Settlement Agreement, it was like a weight was lifted off my shoulders. For the first time in I don’t know how many years, Brenda and I can have a conversation that is not fraught with tension. We can talk peacefully and respectfully to each other - it’s easier to be kind because the hostility is gone. I am not sure if the word “friends” applies but I would say the caring remains, and I am able to be supportive without taking ownership of problems and challenges. I am pleased to say that Brenda has become more than serviceably competent, even in the matter of her finances which she agonized over so profusely. I again thank you for all you did in helping us get through one of the hardest things either of us had to do. There is a peaceful life on the other side. I am glad to say that I am quite pleased that we can both live our lives now without the rancor and animosity. You did a yeoman’s work on our behalf and I, for one am grateful."

Mark H.