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About Ada L. Hasloecher

Divorce Mediator / Center Founder Divorce & Family Mediation Center, LLC Phone: 631-585-5210 eMail: Info@DFMCLI.com 888 Veterans Memorial Highway Suite 500 Hauppauge, NY 11788 Suffolk and Nassau Counties, Long Island, New York

Civility + Dignity = Inner Peace
Civility + Dignity = Inner Peace

Civility + Dignity = Inner Peace

{3:36 minutes to read} It seems that one of the [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:27-05:00Categories: Divorce/Separation Emotions, Family & Divorce, General, Marital Mediation, Mediation Process, One|Tags: Ada Hasloecher, Anger in Divorce, Bitterness in Divorce, Divorce, Divorce Agreement, Divorce and Family Mediation Center, Divorce Mediation, Divorce Mediation Process|0 Comments

Thoughts on Promise and Redemption
Thoughts on Promise and Redemption

Thoughts on Promise and Redemption

{3:54 minutes to read} It seems the perfect time of [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:27-05:00Categories: Divorce/Separation Emotions, Family & Divorce, Mediation Process, One, Perspective|Tags: Ada Hasloecher, Communication, Divorce, Divorce and Family, Divorce and Family Mediation Center, Divorce Mediation, Easter, Mediation, Mediator, Pagans, Passover, Promises, Redemption, Spring|1 Comment

Can I Keep My Pishke?
Can I Keep My Pishke?

Can I Keep My Pishke?

{4:12 minutes to read} When I was growing up, every [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:27-05:00Categories: Finances & Divorce, House & Property, One|Tags: Ada Hasloecher, Divorce, Divorce and Family, Divorce and Family Mediation Center, Divorce Mediation, Finances, Financial Disclosure, Hiding Money, Mediation, Mediator, Pishke, Separation Agreements|2 Comments

Floggings Will Continue Until Morale Improves
Floggings Will Continue Until Morale Improves

Floggings Will Continue Until Morale Improves

{2:06 minutes to read} I don’t know where and when [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:27-05:00Categories: Divorce/Separation Emotions, Family & Divorce, One, Perspective|Tags: Ada Hasloecher, Communication, Divorce, Divorce and Family Mediation Center, Divorce Mediation, High-Conflict Divorcing Couples, Mediation, Mediator, Post-Divorce Relatioship|0 Comments

Lions and Tigers and Bears, Oh My!
Lions and Tigers and Bears, Oh My!

Lions and Tigers and Bears, Oh My!

{3:42 minutes to read} So sang Dorothy, the Scarecrow, the [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:28-05:00Categories: Divorce/Separation Emotions, Mediation Process, One, Perspective|Tags: Ada Hasloecher, Courage, Divorce, Divorce and Family, Divorce and Family Mediation Center, Divorce Mediation, Fears in Divorce, Hyperbole in the Media, Legal Separation, Mediation, Mediator, Wizard of Oz|1 Comment

Let Go of the Banana!
Let Go of the Banana!

Let Go of the Banana!

{1:51 minutes to read} Let Go or Be Dragged - [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:28-05:00Categories: Divorce/Separation Emotions, House & Property, Mediation Process, One, Perspective|Tags: Ada Hasloecher, Divorce, Divorce and Family, Divorce and Family Mediation Center, Divorce Mediation, Let Go or Be Dragged, Mediation, Mediator|0 Comments

The Best Laid Plans of Mice and Men . . . and Grandmas
The Best Laid Plans of Mice and Men . . . and Grandmas

The Best Laid Plans of Mice and Men . . . and Grandmas

{Time to Read: 3 minutes} When my niece was pregnant [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:28-05:00Categories: Children & Divorce, Family & Divorce, One, Parenting, Perspective|Tags: Ada Hasloecher, Best Laid Plans, Communication, Family, Grandma, Of Mice and Men|1 Comment

Yield, Right of Way
Yield, Right of Way

Yield, Right of Way

[Time to Read: 3.8 mins] Living on Long Island, I [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:28-05:00Categories: Mediation Process, One, Perspective|Tags: Ada Hasloecher, Communication, Divorce, Divorce and Family Mediation Center, Divorce Mediation, Divorce Process, Driving Safety Tips, Long Island Driving, Long Island Expressway, Mediation, Mediator|4 Comments

Getting Divorce Right
Getting Divorce Right

Getting Divorce Right

[Time to Read: 3.6 mins] *Names have been changed Couples [...]

A Goal Without a Plan Is Just a Wish
A Goal Without a Plan Is Just a Wish

A Goal Without a Plan Is Just a Wish

On Friday, November 14th, I was watching The News Hour [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:28-05:00Categories: Finances & Divorce, Mediation Process, One, Perspective, Separation & Divorce Mediation|Tags: Ada Hasloecher, Atlantic City, Divorce and Family Mediation Center, Dreams, Goals, Health, Mediation, Mediator, Personal Planning, Practical Plan, Transformational Coach, Wellness, Wishes|1 Comment

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"Almost from the date we signed the Settlement Agreement, it was like a weight was lifted off my shoulders. For the first time in I don’t know how many years, Brenda and I can have a conversation that is not fraught with tension. We can talk peacefully and respectfully to each other - it’s easier to be kind because the hostility is gone. I am not sure if the word “friends” applies but I would say the caring remains, and I am able to be supportive without taking ownership of problems and challenges. I am pleased to say that Brenda has become more than serviceably competent, even in the matter of her finances which she agonized over so profusely. I again thank you for all you did in helping us get through one of the hardest things either of us had to do. There is a peaceful life on the other side. I am glad to say that I am quite pleased that we can both live our lives now without the rancor and animosity. You did a yeoman’s work on our behalf and I, for one am grateful."

Mark H.

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