Posts in the Divorce/Separation Emotions Category at Divorce and Family Mediation Center, LLC, Page 10

How Do I Broach the “I Want a Separation” Conversation?
How Do I Broach the “I Want a Separation” Conversation?

How Do I Broach the “I Want a Separation” Conversation?

{4:36 minutes to read} . . . with great [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2019-02-19T12:38:39-05:00Categories: Divorce/Separation Emotions, Family & Divorce, Separation & Divorce Mediation|Tags: Ada L Hasloecher, Divorce and Family, Divorcing, Separating|0 Comments

“I Feel Like a Homeless Person”
“I Feel Like a Homeless Person”

“I Feel Like a Homeless Person”

{3:18 minutes to read} These were the exact words expressed [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:23-05:00Categories: Divorce/Separation Emotions, Mediation Process, One|Tags: Ada Hasloecher, Divorce, Divorce and Family, Divorce and Family Mediation Center, Divorce Fears, Divorce Mediation, Mediation, Mediator, Separation Agreements|1 Comment

When Is It Appropriate to Introduce the Children to a Significant Other? Part 1 – The Scenario
When Is It Appropriate to Introduce the Children to a Significant Other? Part 1 – The Scenario

When Is It Appropriate to Introduce the Children to a Significant Other? Part 1 – The Scenario

{3:56 minutes to read} Of all the issues that come [...]

Are You “Ping Worthy”?
Are You “Ping Worthy”?

Are You “Ping Worthy”?

{4 minutes to read} My friend Heidi purchased a new [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:27-05:00Categories: Divorce/Separation Emotions, Marital Mediation, Mediation Process, One|Tags: Ada Hasloecher, Collaborative Divorce, Considering Divorce, Divorce, Divorce Agreement, Divorce and Family Mediation Center, Divorce Mediation, Divorce Strategy, Flexibility and Divorce, Mediation Flexibility, Successful Mediation|1 Comment

Civility + Dignity = Inner Peace
Civility + Dignity = Inner Peace

Civility + Dignity = Inner Peace

{3:36 minutes to read} It seems that one of the [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:27-05:00Categories: Divorce/Separation Emotions, Family & Divorce, General, Marital Mediation, Mediation Process, One|Tags: Ada Hasloecher, Anger in Divorce, Bitterness in Divorce, Divorce, Divorce Agreement, Divorce and Family Mediation Center, Divorce Mediation, Divorce Mediation Process|0 Comments

Thoughts on Promise and Redemption
Thoughts on Promise and Redemption

Thoughts on Promise and Redemption

{3:54 minutes to read} It seems the perfect time of [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:27-05:00Categories: Divorce/Separation Emotions, Family & Divorce, Mediation Process, One, Perspective|Tags: Ada Hasloecher, Communication, Divorce, Divorce and Family, Divorce and Family Mediation Center, Divorce Mediation, Easter, Mediation, Mediator, Pagans, Passover, Promises, Redemption, Spring|1 Comment

Floggings Will Continue Until Morale Improves
Floggings Will Continue Until Morale Improves

Floggings Will Continue Until Morale Improves

{2:06 minutes to read} I don’t know where and when [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:27-05:00Categories: Divorce/Separation Emotions, Family & Divorce, One, Perspective|Tags: Ada Hasloecher, Communication, Divorce, Divorce and Family Mediation Center, Divorce Mediation, High-Conflict Divorcing Couples, Mediation, Mediator, Post-Divorce Relatioship|0 Comments

Lions and Tigers and Bears, Oh My!
Lions and Tigers and Bears, Oh My!

Lions and Tigers and Bears, Oh My!

{3:42 minutes to read} So sang Dorothy, the Scarecrow, the [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:28-05:00Categories: Divorce/Separation Emotions, Mediation Process, One, Perspective|Tags: Ada Hasloecher, Courage, Divorce, Divorce and Family, Divorce and Family Mediation Center, Divorce Mediation, Fears in Divorce, Hyperbole in the Media, Legal Separation, Mediation, Mediator, Wizard of Oz|1 Comment

Let Go of the Banana!
Let Go of the Banana!

Let Go of the Banana!

{1:51 minutes to read} Let Go or Be Dragged - [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:28-05:00Categories: Divorce/Separation Emotions, House & Property, Mediation Process, One, Perspective|Tags: Ada Hasloecher, Divorce, Divorce and Family, Divorce and Family Mediation Center, Divorce Mediation, Let Go or Be Dragged, Mediation, Mediator|0 Comments

We Stopped Paddling
We Stopped Paddling

We Stopped Paddling

In October, my husband and I took our 25th annual [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:28-05:00Categories: Divorce/Separation Emotions, One, Perspective|Tags: Ada Hasloecher, Children and Divorce, Divorce, Divorce and Family, Divorce and Family Mediation Center, Divorce Mediation, Making Time for Yourself, Mediation, Mediator, Recharging|2 Comments

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"Almost from the date we signed the Settlement Agreement, it was like a weight was lifted off my shoulders. For the first time in I don’t know how many years, Brenda and I can have a conversation that is not fraught with tension. We can talk peacefully and respectfully to each other - it’s easier to be kind because the hostility is gone. I am not sure if the word “friends” applies but I would say the caring remains, and I am able to be supportive without taking ownership of problems and challenges. I am pleased to say that Brenda has become more than serviceably competent, even in the matter of her finances which she agonized over so profusely. I again thank you for all you did in helping us get through one of the hardest things either of us had to do. There is a peaceful life on the other side. I am glad to say that I am quite pleased that we can both live our lives now without the rancor and animosity. You did a yeoman’s work on our behalf and I, for one am grateful."

Mark H.