Posts in the Divorce/Separation Emotions Category at Divorce and Family Mediation Center, LLC, Page 11

If You’re in the Process, You’re Making Progress
If You’re in the Process, You’re Making Progress

If You’re in the Process, You’re Making Progress

{4:00 minutes to read} This past December, the New York [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2019-02-13T20:14:35-05:00Categories: Divorce/Separation Emotions, Mediation Process, Perspective|Tags: Ada L Hasloecher, Emotional Divorce, Perspective|0 Comments

The New Year – One, Two, Three Punch!
The New Year – One, Two, Three Punch!

The New Year – One, Two, Three Punch!

{2:53 minutes to read} I have three close friends going [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:22-05:00Categories: Divorce/Separation Emotions, Family & Divorce, Finances & Divorce|Tags: Ada L Hasloecher, Divorce and Family, Finances|0 Comments

How Do I Broach the “I Want a Separation” Conversation?
How Do I Broach the “I Want a Separation” Conversation?

How Do I Broach the “I Want a Separation” Conversation?

{4:36 minutes to read} . . . with great [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2019-02-19T12:38:39-05:00Categories: Divorce/Separation Emotions, Family & Divorce, Separation & Divorce Mediation|Tags: Ada L Hasloecher, Divorce and Family, Divorcing, Separating|0 Comments

“I Feel Like a Homeless Person”
“I Feel Like a Homeless Person”

“I Feel Like a Homeless Person”

{3:18 minutes to read} These were the exact words expressed [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:23-05:00Categories: Divorce/Separation Emotions, Mediation Process, One|Tags: Ada Hasloecher, Divorce, Divorce and Family, Divorce and Family Mediation Center, Divorce Fears, Divorce Mediation, Mediation, Mediator, Separation Agreements|1 Comment

When Is It Appropriate to Introduce the Children to a Significant Other? Part 1 – The Scenario
When Is It Appropriate to Introduce the Children to a Significant Other? Part 1 – The Scenario

When Is It Appropriate to Introduce the Children to a Significant Other? Part 1 – The Scenario

{3:56 minutes to read} Of all the issues that come [...]

Are You “Ping Worthy”?
Are You “Ping Worthy”?

Are You “Ping Worthy”?

{4 minutes to read} My friend Heidi purchased a new [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:27-05:00Categories: Divorce/Separation Emotions, Marital Mediation, Mediation Process, One|Tags: Ada Hasloecher, Collaborative Divorce, Considering Divorce, Divorce, Divorce Agreement, Divorce and Family Mediation Center, Divorce Mediation, Divorce Strategy, Flexibility and Divorce, Mediation Flexibility, Successful Mediation|1 Comment

Civility + Dignity = Inner Peace
Civility + Dignity = Inner Peace

Civility + Dignity = Inner Peace

{3:36 minutes to read} It seems that one of the [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:27-05:00Categories: Divorce/Separation Emotions, Family & Divorce, General, Marital Mediation, Mediation Process, One|Tags: Ada Hasloecher, Anger in Divorce, Bitterness in Divorce, Divorce, Divorce Agreement, Divorce and Family Mediation Center, Divorce Mediation, Divorce Mediation Process|0 Comments

Thoughts on Promise and Redemption
Thoughts on Promise and Redemption

Thoughts on Promise and Redemption

{3:54 minutes to read} It seems the perfect time of [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:27-05:00Categories: Divorce/Separation Emotions, Family & Divorce, Mediation Process, One, Perspective|Tags: Ada Hasloecher, Communication, Divorce, Divorce and Family, Divorce and Family Mediation Center, Divorce Mediation, Easter, Mediation, Mediator, Pagans, Passover, Promises, Redemption, Spring|1 Comment

Floggings Will Continue Until Morale Improves
Floggings Will Continue Until Morale Improves

Floggings Will Continue Until Morale Improves

{2:06 minutes to read} I don’t know where and when [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:27-05:00Categories: Divorce/Separation Emotions, Family & Divorce, One, Perspective|Tags: Ada Hasloecher, Communication, Divorce, Divorce and Family Mediation Center, Divorce Mediation, High-Conflict Divorcing Couples, Mediation, Mediator, Post-Divorce Relatioship|0 Comments

Lions and Tigers and Bears, Oh My!
Lions and Tigers and Bears, Oh My!

Lions and Tigers and Bears, Oh My!

{3:42 minutes to read} So sang Dorothy, the Scarecrow, the [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:28-05:00Categories: Divorce/Separation Emotions, Mediation Process, One, Perspective|Tags: Ada Hasloecher, Courage, Divorce, Divorce and Family, Divorce and Family Mediation Center, Divorce Mediation, Fears in Divorce, Hyperbole in the Media, Legal Separation, Mediation, Mediator, Wizard of Oz|1 Comment

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"Almost from the date we signed the Settlement Agreement, it was like a weight was lifted off my shoulders. For the first time in I don’t know how many years, Brenda and I can have a conversation that is not fraught with tension. We can talk peacefully and respectfully to each other - it’s easier to be kind because the hostility is gone. I am not sure if the word “friends” applies but I would say the caring remains, and I am able to be supportive without taking ownership of problems and challenges. I am pleased to say that Brenda has become more than serviceably competent, even in the matter of her finances which she agonized over so profusely. I again thank you for all you did in helping us get through one of the hardest things either of us had to do. There is a peaceful life on the other side. I am glad to say that I am quite pleased that we can both live our lives now without the rancor and animosity. You did a yeoman’s work on our behalf and I, for one am grateful."

Mark H.