Posts in the Finances & Divorce Category at Divorce and Family Mediation Center, LLC, Page 10

Thoughts on Pre-Cana and How it Relates to Mediation
Thoughts on Pre-Cana and How it Relates to Mediation

Thoughts on Pre-Cana and How it Relates to Mediation

As a divorce and family mediator, I often wonder what [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:35-05:00Categories: Children & Divorce, Divorce/Separation Emotions, Family & Divorce, Finances & Divorce, General, Marital Mediation, Parenting, Perspective, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Two|Tags: Communication, Marriage, Marriage Preparation, Pre-Cana|3 Comments

Do You Always Have to Have it Your Way?
Do You Always Have to Have it Your Way?

Do You Always Have to Have it Your Way?

Who hasn’t been there at one time or another; caught [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:35-05:00Categories: Divorce/Separation Emotions, Family & Divorce, Finances & Divorce, Mediation Process, Perspective, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Two|Tags: Agreement, Child Support, Communication, Divorce Financial Planning, Divorce Mediation, Mediation, Money|1 Comment

Separation/Divorce: No Texting Please!
Separation/Divorce: No Texting Please!

Separation/Divorce: No Texting Please!

I can’t tell you how many times couples will sit [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:35-05:00Categories: Finances & Divorce, General, Mediation Process, Two|Tags: Communication, Divorce, Divorce Mediation, Mediation|1 Comment

Separation/Divorce: Waddya Mean It’s Joint Money??!
Separation/Divorce: Waddya Mean It’s Joint Money??!

Separation/Divorce: Waddya Mean It’s Joint Money??!

“Waddya mean it’s joint money??!” exclaimed [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2019-03-28T23:08:15-04:00Categories: Divorce/Separation Emotions, Finances & Divorce, House & Property, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Two|Tags: Divorce, Divorce Mediation, Mediation, Money, Separation Agreements, Stipulation of Settlement|0 Comments

Separation/Divorce: My Lawyer Said . . .
Separation/Divorce: My Lawyer Said . . .

Separation/Divorce: My Lawyer Said . . .

How many times have I heard the words: “Well, my [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:36-05:00Categories: Children & Divorce, Family & Divorce, Finances & Divorce, General, House & Property, Mediation Process, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Two|Tags: Collaborative Divorce, Communication, Divorce, Divorce Mediation, Legal Separation, Litigation, Mediation|2 Comments

To Complete or Not To Complete
To Complete or Not To Complete

To Complete or Not To Complete

One of the many advantages of mediation is that clients [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:36-05:00Categories: Children & Divorce, Divorce/Separation Emotions, Family & Divorce, Finances & Divorce, Mediation Process, Perspective, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Three|Tags: Collaborative Divorce, Divorce, Divorce Mediation, Legal Separation, Mediation, Separation Agreements|2 Comments

Separation/Divorce: Mediation – A Means For Better Communication
Separation/Divorce: Mediation – A Means For Better Communication

Separation/Divorce: Mediation – A Means For Better Communication

In my years as a divorce and family mediator, [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2019-03-28T22:43:59-04:00Categories: Children & Divorce, Family & Divorce, Finances & Divorce, Mediation Process, Parenting, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Three|Tags: Communication, Divorce, Divorce Mediation, Legal Separation, Mediation|0 Comments

Separation or Divorce: The Financial-Emotional Conundrum Part II
Separation or Divorce: The Financial-Emotional Conundrum Part II

Separation or Divorce: The Financial-Emotional Conundrum Part II

How Do We Get “There” Together? In Part 1 of [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2019-03-28T23:15:28-04:00Categories: Divorce/Separation Emotions, Family & Divorce, Finances & Divorce, Mediation Process, Perspective, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Three|Tags: Agreement, Divorce Financial Planning, Divorce Mediation, Legal Separation, Mediation, Separation Agreements|1 Comment

Separation or Divorce: The Financial-Emotional Conundrum Part I
Separation or Divorce: The Financial-Emotional Conundrum Part I

Separation or Divorce: The Financial-Emotional Conundrum Part I

There are many aspects of our “being” that make us [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:41-05:00Categories: Divorce/Separation Emotions, Family & Divorce, Finances & Divorce, Mediation Process, Perspective, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Three|Tags: Divorce and Family, Divorce Mediation, Emotional Divorce, Finances, Perspective, Separation|4 Comments

Separation or Divorce: The “No Surprise” Ending
Separation or Divorce: The “No Surprise” Ending

Separation or Divorce: The “No Surprise” Ending

We all know the story or some version of it: [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2019-03-28T22:53:47-04:00Categories: Children & Divorce, Divorce/Separation Emotions, Family & Divorce, Finances & Divorce, General, Mediation Process, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Three|Tags: Ada Hasloecher, Divorce, Divorce and Family Mediation Center, Emotional Divorce, Mediation, Separation|3 Comments

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"Almost from the date we signed the Settlement Agreement, it was like a weight was lifted off my shoulders. For the first time in I don’t know how many years, Brenda and I can have a conversation that is not fraught with tension. We can talk peacefully and respectfully to each other - it’s easier to be kind because the hostility is gone. I am not sure if the word “friends” applies but I would say the caring remains, and I am able to be supportive without taking ownership of problems and challenges. I am pleased to say that Brenda has become more than serviceably competent, even in the matter of her finances which she agonized over so profusely. I again thank you for all you did in helping us get through one of the hardest things either of us had to do. There is a peaceful life on the other side. I am glad to say that I am quite pleased that we can both live our lives now without the rancor and animosity. You did a yeoman’s work on our behalf and I, for one am grateful."

Mark H.