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Strategize/Don’t Strategize – That Is The Question
Strategize/Don’t Strategize – That Is The Question

Strategize/Don’t Strategize – That Is The Question

Strategize/don’t strategize – that is indeed a great question. There [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2019-02-13T21:08:05-05:00Categories: Family & Divorce, Finances & Divorce, General, Mediation Process, One, Perspective, Separation & Divorce Mediation|Tags: Ada Hasloecher, Divorce, Divorce and Family Mediation Center, Divorce Mediation, Divorce Strategy, Life Changes, Mediation, Mediator|0 Comments

“Big Thanks to the Waxing Team!”
“Big Thanks to the Waxing Team!”

“Big Thanks to the Waxing Team!”

“Big Thanks to the Waxing Team!” By far my favorite [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2019-02-13T21:12:53-05:00Categories: Family & Divorce, General, Mediation Process, One, Perspective, Separation & Divorce Mediation|Tags: Ada Hasloecher, Communication, Divorce and Family Mediation Center, Divorce Mediation, Marcus Hellner, Mediation, Mediator, Obstacles, Winter Olympics|4 Comments

The Art and Danger of Distracting Ourselves
The Art and Danger of Distracting Ourselves

The Art and Danger of Distracting Ourselves

Frasier: The five-time Emmy Award winning Best Comedy series, garnering [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:31-05:00Categories: Family & Divorce, General, Mediation Process, Perspective, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Two|Tags: Ada Hasloecher, Agreement, Communication, David Hyde Pierce, Distractions, Divorce and Family Mediation Center, Divorce Mediation, Frasier, Frasier Crane, Kelsey Grammar, Mediation, Niles Crane, Taking Responsibility|3 Comments

Why Am I Declaring January Mediation Month?
Why Am I Declaring January Mediation Month?

Why Am I Declaring January Mediation Month?

Because January is a good month to make this declaration. [...]

Charlotte’s Mediation Web
Charlotte’s Mediation Web

Charlotte’s Mediation Web

I have eleven jalousie windows in my upstairs enclosed sun [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2019-03-28T23:41:46-04:00Categories: Mediation Process, Two|Tags: Ada Hasloecher, Divorce Agreement, Divorce and Family Mediation Center, Flexibility and Divorce, Separation Agreement, Settlement Agreement, Spider Web|2 Comments

You Are Not Alone
You Are Not Alone

You Are Not Alone

One the many significant tasks that we as mediators do [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:32-05:00Categories: Divorce/Separation Emotions, Family & Divorce, Mediation Process, Perspective, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Two|Tags: Ada Hasloecher, Children and Divorce, Communication, Divorce, Divorce Mediation, Feelings of Loneliness in Divorce, Foreclosure, Normalcy in Divorce, Shame in Divorce|5 Comments

Leaning Back, Thinking Forward
Leaning Back, Thinking Forward

Leaning Back, Thinking Forward

The prevailing wisdom in mediation is that we start with [...]

I Don’t Hate Her, She Don’t Hate Me
I Don’t Hate Her, She Don’t Hate Me

I Don’t Hate Her, She Don’t Hate Me

Could there be sweeter words to a mediator’s ears? I [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2019-03-28T22:31:28-04:00Categories: Children & Divorce, Family & Divorce, Finances & Divorce, General, Mediation Process, Parenting, Perspective, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Two|Tags: Ada Hasloecher, Agreement, Children and Divorce, Co-Parenting, Communication, Divorce, Divorce Mediation, Legal Separation, Mediation, Separation Agreements, Successful Mediation|2 Comments

How a Mediation Can Sometimes Feel Like Watching The Weather Channel
How a Mediation Can Sometimes Feel Like Watching The Weather Channel

How a Mediation Can Sometimes Feel Like Watching The Weather Channel

How many times has this happened to you? You get [...]

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One of the things I most look forward to is [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:33-05:00Categories: Divorce/Separation Emotions, General, Mediation Process, Two|Tags: Communicating Post-Break-up, Couple Communication, Divorce, Divorce Mediation, Heart Break, Mediation, Pain After Break-up, Relationship Closure|2 Comments

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"Almost from the date we signed the Settlement Agreement, it was like a weight was lifted off my shoulders. For the first time in I don’t know how many years, Brenda and I can have a conversation that is not fraught with tension. We can talk peacefully and respectfully to each other - it’s easier to be kind because the hostility is gone. I am not sure if the word “friends” applies but I would say the caring remains, and I am able to be supportive without taking ownership of problems and challenges. I am pleased to say that Brenda has become more than serviceably competent, even in the matter of her finances which she agonized over so profusely. I again thank you for all you did in helping us get through one of the hardest things either of us had to do. There is a peaceful life on the other side. I am glad to say that I am quite pleased that we can both live our lives now without the rancor and animosity. You did a yeoman’s work on our behalf and I, for one am grateful."

Mark H.

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