Posts in the Mediation Process Category at Divorce and Family Mediation Center, LLC, Page 12

You Are Not Alone
You Are Not Alone

You Are Not Alone

One the many significant tasks that we as mediators do [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:32-05:00Categories: Divorce/Separation Emotions, Family & Divorce, Mediation Process, Perspective, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Two|Tags: Ada Hasloecher, Children and Divorce, Communication, Divorce, Divorce Mediation, Feelings of Loneliness in Divorce, Foreclosure, Normalcy in Divorce, Shame in Divorce|5 Comments

Leaning Back, Thinking Forward
Leaning Back, Thinking Forward

Leaning Back, Thinking Forward

The prevailing wisdom in mediation is that we start with [...]

I Don’t Hate Her, She Don’t Hate Me
I Don’t Hate Her, She Don’t Hate Me

I Don’t Hate Her, She Don’t Hate Me

Could there be sweeter words to a mediator’s ears? I [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2019-03-28T22:31:28-04:00Categories: Children & Divorce, Family & Divorce, Finances & Divorce, General, Mediation Process, Parenting, Perspective, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Two|Tags: Ada Hasloecher, Agreement, Children and Divorce, Co-Parenting, Communication, Divorce, Divorce Mediation, Legal Separation, Mediation, Separation Agreements, Successful Mediation|2 Comments

How a Mediation Can Sometimes Feel Like Watching The Weather Channel
How a Mediation Can Sometimes Feel Like Watching The Weather Channel

How a Mediation Can Sometimes Feel Like Watching The Weather Channel

How many times has this happened to you? You get [...]

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One of the things I most look forward to is [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:33-05:00Categories: Divorce/Separation Emotions, General, Mediation Process, Two|Tags: Communicating Post-Break-up, Couple Communication, Divorce, Divorce Mediation, Heart Break, Mediation, Pain After Break-up, Relationship Closure|2 Comments

Thoughts on Pre-Cana and How it Relates to Mediation – Part 3
Thoughts on Pre-Cana and How it Relates to Mediation – Part 3

Thoughts on Pre-Cana and How it Relates to Mediation – Part 3

Over the past few months as my articles have been [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:34-05:00Categories: Children & Divorce, Family & Divorce, Mediation Process, Parenting, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Two|Tags: Communication, Compadability with Partner Pre-Marriage, Dating, Do You Like Your Partner?, Issues to Explore Before Marriage, Marriage Preparation, Mediation, Pre-Cana|2 Comments

Academy of Professional Family Mediators Launch
Academy of Professional Family Mediators Launch

Academy of Professional Family Mediators Launch

I am pleased to announce the launch of a new [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:35-05:00Categories: General, Mediation Process, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Two|Tags: APFM, Divorce Mediation, Mediation, The Academy of Professional Family Mediators|3 Comments

Do You Always Have to Have it Your Way?
Do You Always Have to Have it Your Way?

Do You Always Have to Have it Your Way?

Who hasn’t been there at one time or another; caught [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:35-05:00Categories: Divorce/Separation Emotions, Family & Divorce, Finances & Divorce, Mediation Process, Perspective, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Two|Tags: Agreement, Child Support, Communication, Divorce Financial Planning, Divorce Mediation, Mediation, Money|1 Comment

Separation/Divorce: In A Client’s Own Words: Why Mediation?
Separation/Divorce: In A Client’s Own Words: Why Mediation?

Separation/Divorce: In A Client’s Own Words: Why Mediation?

I love sharing stories like this. It not only warms [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2019-03-28T22:49:23-04:00Categories: Children & Divorce, Divorce/Separation Emotions, Family & Divorce, Mediation Process, Perspective, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Two|Tags: Divorce Litigation, Divorce Mediation, Marriage Reconciliation, Remarry with Kids, Remarrying after Divorce|5 Comments

Separation/Divorce: No Texting Please!
Separation/Divorce: No Texting Please!

Separation/Divorce: No Texting Please!

I can’t tell you how many times couples will sit [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:35-05:00Categories: Finances & Divorce, General, Mediation Process, Two|Tags: Communication, Divorce, Divorce Mediation, Mediation|1 Comment

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"Almost from the date we signed the Settlement Agreement, it was like a weight was lifted off my shoulders. For the first time in I don’t know how many years, Brenda and I can have a conversation that is not fraught with tension. We can talk peacefully and respectfully to each other - it’s easier to be kind because the hostility is gone. I am not sure if the word “friends” applies but I would say the caring remains, and I am able to be supportive without taking ownership of problems and challenges. I am pleased to say that Brenda has become more than serviceably competent, even in the matter of her finances which she agonized over so profusely. I again thank you for all you did in helping us get through one of the hardest things either of us had to do. There is a peaceful life on the other side. I am glad to say that I am quite pleased that we can both live our lives now without the rancor and animosity. You did a yeoman’s work on our behalf and I, for one am grateful."

Mark H.