Posts in the Perspective Category at Divorce and Family Mediation Center, LLC, Page 3

My Thanks GIVING to My Clients
My Thanks GIVING to My Clients

My Thanks GIVING to My Clients

{4:30 minutes to read} In the spirit of the [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2018-11-14T12:23:36-05:00Categories: Children & Divorce, Divorce/Separation Emotions, Family & Divorce, Mediation Process, Mediation Success Stories, Parenting, Perspective, Separation & Divorce Mediation|Tags: Gratefulness, Mediation, Mediation Process, Thanksgiving|0 Comments

Good Luck and Smooth Sailing
Good Luck and Smooth Sailing

Good Luck and Smooth Sailing

{3:24 to read} For those of you who have [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2018-10-24T12:11:00-04:00Categories: Divorce/Separation Emotions, Family & Divorce, Perspective, Separation & Divorce Mediation|Tags: Action in the North Atlantic, Divorce, Mediation|1 Comment

But We Already Agreed to Everything!
But We Already Agreed to Everything!

But We Already Agreed to Everything!

{3:30 minutes to read} How many times during a [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2018-09-05T14:14:32-04:00Categories: Divorce/Separation Emotions, Finances & Divorce, Mediation Process, Perspective, Post Separation/Divorce|Tags: Co-Parenting, Cooperation, Divorce Negotiation, Mediation Process, Parenting Plans, Settlement Agreement|0 Comments

The Parents Eat Bitter Grapes and the Children’s Teeth Are Set On Edge
The Parents Eat Bitter Grapes and the Children’s Teeth Are Set On Edge

The Parents Eat Bitter Grapes and the Children’s Teeth Are Set On Edge

The parents eat bitter grapes and the children’s teeth are [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2019-01-23T14:38:55-05:00Categories: Children & Divorce, Divorce/Separation Emotions, Family & Divorce, Mediation Process, Parenting, Perspective, Separation & Divorce Mediation|Tags: Co-Parenting, Post-Divorce Parenting|0 Comments

I Have a Feeling
I Have a Feeling

I Have a Feeling

{4 minutes to read} Spring in the Northeast brought [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2018-06-26T09:50:03-04:00Categories: Children & Divorce, Divorce/Separation Emotions, Family & Divorce, Finances & Divorce, Mediation Process, Parenting, Perspective|Tags: Co-Parenting, Divorce Agreement, Mediation, Negotiation, Optimism, Post-Divorce Parenting|0 Comments

A Moral Agreement vs. a Legal Agreement
A Moral Agreement vs. a Legal Agreement

A Moral Agreement vs. a Legal Agreement

{4:24 minutes to read} In May, I attended the [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2018-06-12T13:56:43-04:00Categories: Divorce/Separation Emotions, Family & Divorce, Mediation Process, Perspective, Separation & Divorce Mediation|Tags: Divorce Agreement, Fair Divorce, Legal Agreement, Moral Agreement, Morality in Divorce, New York State Council on Divorce Mediation|3 Comments

The Bar Mitzvah Cease Fire
The Bar Mitzvah Cease Fire

The Bar Mitzvah Cease Fire

{3:24 minutes to read} A dear friend and colleague [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2018-05-16T14:57:36-04:00Categories: Children & Divorce, Divorce/Separation Emotions, Family & Divorce, Mediation Success Stories, Parenting, Perspective, Post Separation/Divorce|Tags: Amicable Divorce, Family Events Post-Divorce, Post-Divorce Family, Post-Divorce Relationships|2 Comments

How We Mediators Don’t Get Jaded by Our Work
How We Mediators Don’t Get Jaded by Our Work

How We Mediators Don’t Get Jaded by Our Work

{4 minutes to read} I’m so often asked if [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2018-05-02T13:11:16-04:00Categories: Divorce/Separation Emotions, Family & Divorce, Mediation Process, Mediation Success Stories, Perspective, Separation & Divorce Mediation|Tags: Career, Mediation, Mediator|0 Comments

Words of Wisdom When Contemplating a Separation
Words of Wisdom When Contemplating a Separation

Words of Wisdom When Contemplating a Separation

{4 minutes to read} Over the years, I have [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2018-04-18T15:25:20-04:00Categories: Children & Divorce, Divorce/Separation Emotions, Parenting, Perspective, Post Separation/Divorce, Separation & Divorce Mediation|Tags: Handling Stress, Inspiration, Life Obstacles, Overcoming Stress, Words of Wisdom|0 Comments

Divorce Mediation: Beware of the Wolf in Sheep’s Clothing
Divorce Mediation: Beware of the Wolf in Sheep’s Clothing

Divorce Mediation: Beware of the Wolf in Sheep’s Clothing

{3:30 minutes to read} There [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2018-04-04T15:02:29-04:00Categories: Divorce/Separation Emotions, Family & Divorce, Mediation Process, Perspective, Separation & Divorce Mediation|Tags: ADR (alternative dispute resolution), Divorce Mediation, Mediation Training|0 Comments

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"Almost from the date we signed the Settlement Agreement, it was like a weight was lifted off my shoulders. For the first time in I don’t know how many years, Brenda and I can have a conversation that is not fraught with tension. We can talk peacefully and respectfully to each other - it’s easier to be kind because the hostility is gone. I am not sure if the word “friends” applies but I would say the caring remains, and I am able to be supportive without taking ownership of problems and challenges. I am pleased to say that Brenda has become more than serviceably competent, even in the matter of her finances which she agonized over so profusely. I again thank you for all you did in helping us get through one of the hardest things either of us had to do. There is a peaceful life on the other side. I am glad to say that I am quite pleased that we can both live our lives now without the rancor and animosity. You did a yeoman’s work on our behalf and I, for one am grateful."

Mark H.

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