Posts in the Perspective Category at Divorce and Family Mediation Center, LLC, Page 5

What About Us? Divorcing Couples Who Don’t Have Children – Part 1
What About Us? Divorcing Couples Who Don’t Have Children – Part 1

What About Us? Divorcing Couples Who Don’t Have Children – Part 1

{3:12 minutes to read} I recently received an email from [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2019-02-13T20:00:45-05:00Categories: Divorce/Separation Emotions, Mediation Process, Perspective, Separation & Divorce Mediation|Tags: Childless Divorce, Mediation|0 Comments

Vacation? I Just Took a Trip Down Memory Lane!
Vacation? I Just Took a Trip Down Memory Lane!

Vacation? I Just Took a Trip Down Memory Lane!

{3:18 minutes to read} August is a big vacation [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-08-15T14:13:03-04:00Categories: Divorce/Separation Emotions, Family & Divorce, Mediation Process, Mediation Success Stories, Perspective, Separation & Divorce Mediation|Tags: Mediation, Memories, Professional Growth, Vacation|1 Comment

How is Mediation Like a Jigsaw Puzzle or Launching a Ship?
How is Mediation Like a Jigsaw Puzzle or Launching a Ship?

How is Mediation Like a Jigsaw Puzzle or Launching a Ship?

{3:54 minutes to read} During my initial consultation, when [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-07-19T11:21:17-04:00Categories: Divorce/Separation Emotions, Family & Divorce, Finances & Divorce, House & Property, Mediation Process, Perspective, Post Separation/Divorce, Separation & Divorce Mediation|Tags: Divorce, Mediation, Mediation Process|0 Comments

They Came to Liberate, Not To Conquer
They Came to Liberate, Not To Conquer

They Came to Liberate, Not To Conquer

{3:54 minutes to read} You will likely be reading [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-07-07T10:10:39-04:00Categories: Divorce/Separation Emotions, Family & Divorce, Mediation Process, Perspective, Separation & Divorce Mediation|Tags: D-Day, Liberation, Mediation, Mediator, Neutral, Normandy, World War II|0 Comments

What is FOMO and Why Should I Care?
What is FOMO and Why Should I Care?

What is FOMO and Why Should I Care?

{4:12 minutes to read} There are so many acronyms [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-06-26T10:23:18-04:00Categories: Children & Divorce, Divorce/Separation Emotions, Family & Divorce, Finances & Divorce, Mediation Process, Perspective, Post Separation/Divorce, Separation & Divorce Mediation|Tags: Anxiety, Divorce, Fear of Missing Out, Mediation, Social Media Acronyms|0 Comments

All Quiet On The Western Front?
All Quiet On The Western Front?

All Quiet On The Western Front?

{3:48 minutes to read} The World War I masterpiece [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-06-08T12:56:45-04:00Categories: Children & Divorce, Divorce/Separation Emotions, Family & Divorce, Perspective|Tags: All Quiet on the Western Front, Divorce Mediation, Divorce Process, Erich Maria Remarque|0 Comments

What Are Five Lessons from the First 100 (+/-) Days?
What Are Five Lessons from the First 100 (+/-) Days?

What Are Five Lessons from the First 100 (+/-) Days?

{3:48 minutes to read} Without getting into politics—and I [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-05-25T12:56:15-04:00Categories: Divorce/Separation Emotions, Family & Divorce, Finances & Divorce, Mediation Process, Mediation Success Stories, Perspective, Separation & Divorce Mediation|Tags: Co-Parenting, Compromise, Divorce, Mediation, Separation|0 Comments

What Happens When the Rejected Becomes the Rejector?
What Happens When the Rejected Becomes the Rejector?

What Happens When the Rejected Becomes the Rejector?

{4:06 minutes to read} No matter which spouse wants [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-05-09T13:50:50-04:00Categories: Divorce/Separation Emotions, Finances & Divorce, Perspective, Separation & Divorce Mediation|Tags: Cooperation, Divorce, Mediation, Rejection, Separation|0 Comments

Culling Down To The Essentials
Culling Down To The Essentials

Culling Down To The Essentials

{3:36 minutes to read} Recently a very, very close friend [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-02-20T13:13:38-05:00Categories: Divorce/Separation Emotions, Family & Divorce, Mediation Process, Perspective, Separation & Divorce Mediation|Tags: Family, Mediation, Settlement Agreement|0 Comments

Choice
Choice

Choice

{3:54 minutes to read} As with many things in life, [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-02-07T11:59:09-05:00Categories: Divorce/Separation Emotions, Family & Divorce, Perspective|Tags: Divorce, Life Choices, Man’s Search for Meaning, Mediation, Positive Attitude, Viktor E. Frankl|0 Comments

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"Almost from the date we signed the Settlement Agreement, it was like a weight was lifted off my shoulders. For the first time in I don’t know how many years, Brenda and I can have a conversation that is not fraught with tension. We can talk peacefully and respectfully to each other - it’s easier to be kind because the hostility is gone. I am not sure if the word “friends” applies but I would say the caring remains, and I am able to be supportive without taking ownership of problems and challenges. I am pleased to say that Brenda has become more than serviceably competent, even in the matter of her finances which she agonized over so profusely. I again thank you for all you did in helping us get through one of the hardest things either of us had to do. There is a peaceful life on the other side. I am glad to say that I am quite pleased that we can both live our lives now without the rancor and animosity. You did a yeoman’s work on our behalf and I, for one am grateful."

Mark H.