Posts in the Post Separation/Divorce Category at Divorce and Family Mediation Center, LLC, Page 3

How Careful the Cake Cutter Can Be
How Careful the Cake Cutter Can Be

How Careful the Cake Cutter Can Be

{4.30 minutes to read} One beautiful weekend in April, [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2019-06-04T13:44:19-04:00Categories: Children & Divorce, Divorce/Separation Emotions, Parenting, Perspective, Post Separation/Divorce, Separation & Divorce Mediation|Tags: Divorce Mediation, Empathy, Marital Mediation, Sibling Rivalry|0 Comments

Is Anger Necessary Or A Waste of Time?
Is Anger Necessary Or A Waste of Time?

Is Anger Necessary Or A Waste of Time?

{3 minutes to read} Think about the last time [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2019-05-02T12:54:32-04:00Categories: Children & Divorce, Divorce/Separation Emotions, Family & Divorce, Mediation Process, Mediation Success Stories, Perspective, Post Separation/Divorce, Separation & Divorce Mediation|Tags: Anger, Divorce Emotions, Divorce Mediation|2 Comments

During Your Separation Process, You May Want to Pause Your Social Media Engagement
During Your Separation Process, You May Want to Pause Your Social Media Engagement

During Your Separation Process, You May Want to Pause Your Social Media Engagement

{3:30 minutes to read} I think it’s safe to [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2019-03-18T16:47:02-04:00Categories: Children & Divorce, Divorce/Separation Emotions, Family & Divorce, Mediation Process, Perspective, Post Separation/Divorce, Separation & Divorce Mediation|Tags: Divorce, Online Presence, Separation, Social Media|1 Comment

But We Already Agreed to Everything!
But We Already Agreed to Everything!

But We Already Agreed to Everything!

{3:30 minutes to read} How many times during a [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2018-09-05T14:14:32-04:00Categories: Divorce/Separation Emotions, Finances & Divorce, Mediation Process, Perspective, Post Separation/Divorce|Tags: Co-Parenting, Cooperation, Divorce Negotiation, Mediation Process, Parenting Plans, Settlement Agreement|0 Comments

Getting Help Managing Your Pre & Post-Divorce Financial Life and… Where the Heck Is All That Paperwork Anyway??
Getting Help Managing Your Pre & Post-Divorce Financial Life and… Where the Heck Is All That Paperwork Anyway??

Getting Help Managing Your Pre & Post-Divorce Financial Life and… Where the Heck Is All That Paperwork Anyway??

{3:36 minutes to read} This month, I am hosting an [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2019-02-13T20:03:47-05:00Categories: Finances & Divorce, House & Property, Mediation Process, Post Separation/Divorce|Tags: Certified Financial Planner, Divorce Financial Professional, Financial Confidence, Post Divorce Financial Life, Tommie Michalik|0 Comments

The Bar Mitzvah Cease Fire
The Bar Mitzvah Cease Fire

The Bar Mitzvah Cease Fire

{3:24 minutes to read} A dear friend and colleague [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2018-05-16T14:57:36-04:00Categories: Children & Divorce, Divorce/Separation Emotions, Family & Divorce, Mediation Success Stories, Parenting, Perspective, Post Separation/Divorce|Tags: Amicable Divorce, Family Events Post-Divorce, Post-Divorce Family, Post-Divorce Relationships|2 Comments

Words of Wisdom When Contemplating a Separation
Words of Wisdom When Contemplating a Separation

Words of Wisdom When Contemplating a Separation

{4 minutes to read} Over the years, I have [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2018-04-18T15:25:20-04:00Categories: Children & Divorce, Divorce/Separation Emotions, Parenting, Perspective, Post Separation/Divorce, Separation & Divorce Mediation|Tags: Handling Stress, Inspiration, Life Obstacles, Overcoming Stress, Words of Wisdom|0 Comments

Move the Cotton from Your Ears to Your Mouth!
Move the Cotton from Your Ears to Your Mouth!

Move the Cotton from Your Ears to Your Mouth!

{2:58 minutes to read} This past December, as I [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2018-03-07T13:30:31-05:00Categories: Divorce/Separation Emotions, Family & Divorce, Mediation Process, Perspective, Post Separation/Divorce, Separation & Divorce Mediation|Tags: Active Listening, Claudia Ragni, Communication, Divorce, Long Island chapter of the Employee Assistance Professional Association (EAPA), Mediation, The Kenneth Peters Center for Recovery|1 Comment

Detaching Doesn’t Mean You Don’t Care
Detaching Doesn’t Mean You Don’t Care

Detaching Doesn’t Mean You Don’t Care

{3:40 minutes to read} Ahhh – this is a [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2018-01-25T14:18:28-05:00Categories: Divorce/Separation Emotions, Mediation Process, Perspective, Post Separation/Divorce, Separation & Divorce Mediation|Tags: Detachment, Love, Mediation|1 Comment

How is Mediation Like a Jigsaw Puzzle or Launching a Ship?
How is Mediation Like a Jigsaw Puzzle or Launching a Ship?

How is Mediation Like a Jigsaw Puzzle or Launching a Ship?

{3:54 minutes to read} During my initial consultation, when [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-07-19T11:21:17-04:00Categories: Divorce/Separation Emotions, Family & Divorce, Finances & Divorce, House & Property, Mediation Process, Perspective, Post Separation/Divorce, Separation & Divorce Mediation|Tags: Divorce, Mediation, Mediation Process|0 Comments

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"Almost from the date we signed the Settlement Agreement, it was like a weight was lifted off my shoulders. For the first time in I don’t know how many years, Brenda and I can have a conversation that is not fraught with tension. We can talk peacefully and respectfully to each other - it’s easier to be kind because the hostility is gone. I am not sure if the word “friends” applies but I would say the caring remains, and I am able to be supportive without taking ownership of problems and challenges. I am pleased to say that Brenda has become more than serviceably competent, even in the matter of her finances which she agonized over so profusely. I again thank you for all you did in helping us get through one of the hardest things either of us had to do. There is a peaceful life on the other side. I am glad to say that I am quite pleased that we can both live our lives now without the rancor and animosity. You did a yeoman’s work on our behalf and I, for one am grateful."

Mark H.

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