Exploring the Options: When Parents Disagree About Involving a Child in Mediation [VIDEO]
What happens when one parent wants the child involved in mediation and the other doesn’t? In this video, I explain how I handle that situation and outline four possible paths [...]
How I Include and Respect Children in Divorce Mediation [VIDEO]
In divorce mediations involving children, I ensure that children are treated with the same respect and dignity as their parents. During our conversation, I ask the child what they [...]
When Is It Appropriate to Include Children in Divorce Mediation? [VIDEO]
Including children in divorce mediation can be appropriate, especially when parents disagree on co-parenting plans or give conflicting accounts of the child's wishes. With the consent of both parents, [...]
He Said No to Mediation — and Lost More Than Just Money [VIDEO]
This video shares a cautionary tale about a former client whose husband refused to consider a fair division of assets in mediation. Insisting his wife wouldn’t get any of [...]
Key Provisions in Every Marital Settlement Agreement [VIDEO]
Every marital settlement agreement includes provisions on equitable distribution, maintenance (spousal support), and child support, as required by New York State law. These provisions confirm that both parties understand [...]
Protecting Your Children from Parental Conflict During Divorce [VIDEO]
During divorce and separation, negativity between parents can deeply affect kids. They see themselves as a blend of both parents, so when one speaks negatively about the other, children [...]
Supporting Children Through Divorce: The Importance of Mediation [VIDEO]
In a heartfelt message, this video emphasizes the importance of mediation during separation and divorce, particularly for the well-being of children. It highlights the need for a comprehensive [...]
Justice Delayed is Justice Denied (video)
One of the major advantages of mediation is avoiding the long and frustrating delays often associated with the traditional legal system. In this video, I categorize couples into four [...]
Is the Child Support Statute in New York State Still Relevant Today? (video)
The New York State statute for child support, established in 1989, may not adequately address the full range of expenses needed to raise children today. According to the [...]