Tidy, Messy, or Somewhere In Between? Navigate Household Habits Before Marriage. [VIDEO]
Premarital mediation should include discussions about tidiness and household habits. Differences in how partners manage clutter—such as leaving towels on the floor or piling up magazines—can become major sources [...]
Before You Say ‘I Do’: Discussing Work-Life Boundaries in Mediation [VIDEO]
This video on pre-marital mediation introduces the topic of work-life balance as an essential discussion for couples before marriage. Partners are encouraged to explore whether they are aligned on [...]
Plan for Marriage, Not Just the Wedding: Try Premarital Mediation [VIDEO]
Premarital mediation is a proactive process where couples discuss important topics before getting married to help prevent future conflicts. This video emphasizes the value of premarital mediation in addressing [...]
How I Include and Respect Children in Divorce Mediation [VIDEO]
In divorce mediations involving children, I ensure that children are treated with the same respect and dignity as their parents. During our conversation, I ask the child what they [...]
When Silence Speaks: Supporting Your Child Through Divorce [VIDEO]
Think your child is 'fine' just because they're quiet? Think again. It’s often the quiet kids who are hurting most during a divorce. Don’t overlook them. Talk to teachers, [...]
Avoid Unintended Consequences in Divorce by Keeping the Kids in Mind [VIDEO]
When separating or divorcing, unintended consequences can profoundly affect children, even those not directly part of the marriage. A friend of mine experienced this when her former spouse, once [...]
When Self-Doubt Emerges in Mediation, a Lack of Confidence — Not Conflict — Can Derail the Process [VIDEO]
This video discusses how, in mediation, a spouse's lack of self-trust, particularly around decision-making, can disrupt the process. This often shows up with financial matters, especially when one spouse [...]
Divorce With Dignity: A Determined and Optimistic Path [VIDEO]
In an interview, UN Secretary-General António Guterres quoted EU founder Jean Monnet: “I am neither a pessimist nor an optimist. I am determined.” This video shares an appreciation for [...]
Why Doing Nothing Is Sometimes the Best First Step in Mediation [VIDEO]
A quote inspired by Lao Tzu: "The best way to settle muddy water is to do nothing." The quote relates this to mediation, explaining that in the midst of [...]