It’s Not Just What You Say—It’s What They Understand [VIDEO]
A T-shirt said, "I'm only responsible for what I say, not how you understood it." That’s the wrong mindset. Effective communication means making sure the other person truly understands [...]
Managing a Victim Mentality in Mediation: Overcoming Resistance and Moving Forward [VIDEO]
Ada Hasloecher from the Divorce and Family Mediation Center discusses the challenges of mediating with a client who has a victim mentality. She shares a case where a client [...]
Overcoming the Past: Moving Forward in Mediation [VIDEO]
Ada Hasloecher, from the Divorce and Family Mediation Center, shares an analogy comparing driving while looking in the rearview mirror to being stuck in the past during mediation. [...]
The Real Me! [VIDEO]
In this blog, Ada emphasizes her personal touch and extensive experience, assuring clients they receive her genuine expertise, empathy, and dedication throughout their mediation process—not work generated by [...]
A Holiday Surprise [VIDEO]
The best gift this holiday season is forgiveness. Let go of grudges to free both yourself and others, offering love, peace, abundance, and good health. [...]
A Balanced Approach to Divorce Mediation [VIDEO]
A favorite line from the movie True Grit helps illustrate that divorce is not a winner-takes-all situation, but instead, is about finding balance and ensuring that each family [...]
Why Choose Mediation Over Litigation? You Can Resolve Divorce Disputes for Much Less. [VIDEO]
In this video, Ada highlights the financial burden of a high-conflict, litigated divorce, which can drain resources that could otherwise be used for a child's education. She shares [...]
Supporting Children Through Divorce: The Importance of Mediation [VIDEO]
In a heartfelt message, this video emphasizes the importance of mediation during separation and divorce, particularly for the well-being of children. It highlights the need for a comprehensive [...]
Key Considerations for Retirement Plans and QDROs in Divorce Mediation (video)
In divorce mediation, it is crucial to address retirement plans and Qualified Domestic Relations Orders (QDROs) thoughtfully. First, ensure all financial facts are on the table before negotiating [...]