Holidays Schmolidays – Let’s Call the Whole Thing Off!
When you are going through a separation or divorce and the holidays are upon you, it doesn’t matter what anyone says or does to try to make you feel better. [...]
Better the Devil You Know
Better the devil you know? Really? I’m not so sure about that, but it does seem to be a prevailing wisdom and people appear to cling to the notion of [...]
You Are Not Alone
One the many significant tasks that we as mediators do for our couples, is to try to normalize the current situation they are in. This is not a false notion [...]
Conduct Becoming
As part of my summer reading, I just finished a wonderful biography on Queen Elizabeth called Elizabeth the Queen, The Life of a Modern Monarch. What an incredible story! And [...]
How a Mediation Can Sometimes Feel Like Watching The Weather Channel
How many times has this happened to you? You get up in the morning, grab a cup of coffee, put on The Weather Channel to check the weather for the [...]
Ill Equipped
Before I meet with a new couple, I remind myself that for them, life as they know it is over. Everything that has been routine, understood and tacitly agreed to [...]
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One of the things I most look forward to is walking at the beach. I have my favorite place on the north shore of Long Island which not only has [...]
Pre-Cana – Epilogue Part 2
In Part 1 of the Pre-Cana - Epilogue, I covered the first 5 points of the “Top 10” that I delivered to the class that I spoke to on January [...]
Pre-Cana – Epilogue Part 1
As I mentioned in my previous articles on Pre-Cana, I was invited to speak at a Pre-Cana class in January and I finally had that privilege on January 12th. There [...]