The Impact of Your Divorce on Your Children (video)
This video discusses the long-term impact of divorce on children. It shares insights gained from a seminar where individuals share their personal stories and highlights how the issues [...]
Why Trashing and Bashing Your Soon-to-be Ex-spouse to Others, Especially Your Children, May Have Unintended Consequences
In this video, Ada emphasizes the harmful consequences of speaking negatively about your soon-to-be ex-spouse, especially to children. She warns that such behavior can make reconciliation harder and [...]
Timing and Pace of the Mediation Process (video)
There are many advantages to mediation, the biggest of which is probably avoiding the delays associated with traditional legal systems. Couple situations can be divided into four basic [...]
Let’s Talk It Out, Sort It Out, and Work It Out, Together (video)
Ada Hasloecher, from the Divorce and Family Mediation Center, shares a story from a summer visit to Fire Island, highlighting the importance of listening. In the story, Ada [...]
Big Sky Questions (video)
Big Sky means a wide-reaching expanse of sky. Big Sky questions can have far-reaching influence on your mediation and your life. At some point, when we start [...]
Living Together after the Divorce — Can You? Should You? (video)
There are a variety of reasons that couples will delay selling the marital home and, usually, it has to do with the kids. But is that a good idea? [...]
The Advisability of Having a Prenup (Video)
Even though people think that prenups are unromantic, they are actually the most romantic thing that you can do. Why? Getting things in writing and settling issues up [...]
What Banana are You Holding On To? (Video)
We have all been in those situations where we dig in our feet and decide that we are not giving in or giving up what we believe is [...]
Mediation Myth Busting (VIDEO)
A myth is a widely held but false belief or idea. In mediation, like life in general, many people have preconceived notions about the process. In this video, [...]