You Had the Talk … Now What? [VIDEO]
After deciding when, where, and how to have a difficult conversation, the most important step is what happens next. Changing communication habits takes time, so expect mistakes along the [...]
Conflict Isn’t the Problem — How You Handle It Is [VIDEO]
When resolving conflict, focus on how you have the conversation. Instead of reacting with denial, deflection, or defensiveness, give each person space to speak without interruption about what happened, [...]
Conflict Resolution for Couples: What Happens After the Conversation [VIDEO]
In this final installment of my conflict resolution series, I discuss what I believe is the most important step in resolving arguments: what happens after the conversation. Couples often focus [...]
How to Resolve Conflict: When and Where to Have the Conversation [VIDEO]
Conflict is a natural part of life, whether in relationships, family, friendships, or work. If you’ve ever said something in the heat of the moment that you regret, this [...]
How Couples Argue: Do You Fight Fair or Go for the Jugular? [VIDEO]
What kind of fighter are you? Do you fight fair, or do you go for the jugular? Now, this might seem like a ridiculous topic to talk about for [...]
Premarital Mediation: Early Bird vs. Free Spirit — Can Your Marriage Handle It? [VIDEO]
In this episode, Ada Hasloecher discusses how differences in punctuality and planning styles can create serious tension in a marriage. If one partner is always early and structured while the [...]
Premarital Mediation: Understanding Each Other’s Communication Styles [VIDEO]
Premarital mediation isn’t just about whether couples communicate—it’s about how they do it. Couples often have very different communication styles: some answer questions quickly and directly, while others need [...]
Before You Say “I Do,” Are You and Your Partner on the Same Page About Who’s Doing What Around the House? [VIDEO]
Premarital mediation should include an honest conversation about household chores. Couples need to be on the same page about who does what, how often, and whether tasks are shared [...]
Premarital Mediation: Understanding Your Argument & Fighting Styles Before Marriage [VIDEO]
Have you discussed how you handle conflict with your soon-to-be spouse? We all get triggered — sometimes knowingly, sometimes not. When an argument comes up, is your goal to [...]