Premarital Mediation: Understanding Your Argument & Fighting Styles Before Marriage [VIDEO]

Have you discussed how you handle conflict with your soon-to-be spouse? We all get triggered — sometimes knowingly, sometimes not. When an argument comes up, is your goal to win or to understand what’s happening for you and your partner so you can work toward a resolution? Some people need to address issues immediately, while emotions are high and the topic feels urgent. Others need time to cool down, regroup, and come back to the conversation calmly. Neither approach is wrong — but mismatched styles can lead to recurring conflict if they’re not discussed and respected.