‘Perspective’ Articles at Divorce and Family Mediation Center, LLC

Let’s Talk It Out, Sort It Out, and Work It Out, Together (video)
Let’s Talk It Out, Sort It Out, and Work It Out, Together (video)

Let’s Talk It Out, Sort It Out, and Work It Out, Together (video)

Ada Hasloecher, from the Divorce and Family Mediation [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2024-05-14T00:40:18-04:00Categories: Divorce Mediation, Divorce/Separation Emotions, Marital Mediation, Mediation Process, Videos|Tags: Conflict Resolution, Divorce, Listening, Mediation, Perspective, Relationships, Separation, Supportive Listening|0 Comments

Who Bears the Costs of the Emancipated Child?
Who Bears the Costs of the Emancipated Child?

Who Bears the Costs of the Emancipated Child?

{3:54 minutes to read} An oxymoronic question, no? Actually, no, [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:21-05:00Categories: Children & Divorce, Family & Divorce, Finances & Divorce, Parenting, Perspective|Tags: Ada L Hasloecher, Child Custody, Children and Divorce, Divorce and Family, Divorce Finances, Perspective|0 Comments

If You’re in the Process, You’re Making Progress
If You’re in the Process, You’re Making Progress

If You’re in the Process, You’re Making Progress

{4:00 minutes to read} This past December, the New York [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2019-02-13T20:14:35-05:00Categories: Divorce/Separation Emotions, Mediation Process, Perspective|Tags: Ada L Hasloecher, Emotional Divorce, Perspective|0 Comments

The Peace Within / The Peace Without
The Peace Within / The Peace Without

The Peace Within / The Peace Without

{3:18 minutes to read} My friend, Paula Parish, shared one [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:22-05:00Categories: General, Perspective|Tags: Ada L Hasloecher, Perspective|0 Comments

It All Starts to Go Downhill at 95!
It All Starts to Go Downhill at 95!

It All Starts to Go Downhill at 95!

My friend Marie’s mother is 99 years old. She still [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:30-05:00Categories: General, One, Perspective|Tags: Ada Hasloecher, Divorce, Divorce and Family Mediation Center, Divorce Mediation, Elderly Parents, Growing Older, Mediation, Mediator, Perspective|3 Comments

Separation or Divorce: The Financial-Emotional Conundrum Part I
Separation or Divorce: The Financial-Emotional Conundrum Part I

Separation or Divorce: The Financial-Emotional Conundrum Part I

There are many aspects of our “being” that make us [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:41-05:00Categories: Divorce/Separation Emotions, Family & Divorce, Finances & Divorce, Mediation Process, Perspective, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Three|Tags: Divorce and Family, Divorce Mediation, Emotional Divorce, Finances, Perspective, Separation|4 Comments

"Almost from the date we signed the Settlement Agreement, it was like a weight was lifted off my shoulders. For the first time in I don’t know how many years, Brenda and I can have a conversation that is not fraught with tension. We can talk peacefully and respectfully to each other - it’s easier to be kind because the hostility is gone. I am not sure if the word “friends” applies but I would say the caring remains, and I am able to be supportive without taking ownership of problems and challenges. I am pleased to say that Brenda has become more than serviceably competent, even in the matter of her finances which she agonized over so profusely. I again thank you for all you did in helping us get through one of the hardest things either of us had to do. There is a peaceful life on the other side. I am glad to say that I am quite pleased that we can both live our lives now without the rancor and animosity. You did a yeoman’s work on our behalf and I, for one am grateful."

Mark H.