‘We Have to Talk’ Articles at Divorce and Family Mediation Center, LLC

The Conversation Continued… “We Have To Talk”
The Conversation Continued… “We Have To Talk”

The Conversation Continued… “We Have To Talk”

Many spouses hope that the other spouse just “gets it,” but that rarely happens.

Ada L. Hasloecher2019-03-26T08:19:28-04:00Categories: Divorce/Separation Emotions, Family & Divorce, General, One, Separation & Divorce Mediation|Tags: Ada Hasloecher, Children and Divorce, Communication, Divorce, Divorce and Family, Divorce and Family Mediation Center, Divorce Mediation, Legal Separation, Mediation, Mediator, Separation, We have to talk|1 Comment

We Have To Talk
We Have To Talk

We Have To Talk

We have to talk. Are there any four words in the English language that we dread hearing more than those?

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:29-05:00Categories: Divorce/Separation Emotions, Family & Divorce, General, One, Separation & Divorce Mediation|Tags: Ada Hasloecher, Communication, Divorce, Divorce and Family Mediation Center, Divorce Mediation, Legal Separation, Mediation, Mediator, We have to talk|2 Comments

"Almost from the date we signed the Settlement Agreement, it was like a weight was lifted off my shoulders. For the first time in I don’t know how many years, Brenda and I can have a conversation that is not fraught with tension. We can talk peacefully and respectfully to each other - it’s easier to be kind because the hostility is gone. I am not sure if the word “friends” applies but I would say the caring remains, and I am able to be supportive without taking ownership of problems and challenges. I am pleased to say that Brenda has become more than serviceably competent, even in the matter of her finances which she agonized over so profusely. I again thank you for all you did in helping us get through one of the hardest things either of us had to do. There is a peaceful life on the other side. I am glad to say that I am quite pleased that we can both live our lives now without the rancor and animosity. You did a yeoman’s work on our behalf and I, for one am grateful."

Mark H.

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