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Divorce Mediator / Center Founder Divorce & Family Mediation Center, LLC Phone: 631-585-5210 eMail: Info@DFMCLI.com 888 Veterans Memorial Highway Suite 500 Hauppauge, NY 11788 Suffolk and Nassau Counties, Long Island, New York

Protecting Your Children from Parental Conflict During Divorce [VIDEO]
Protecting Your Children from Parental Conflict During Divorce [VIDEO]

Protecting Your Children from Parental Conflict During Divorce [VIDEO]

During divorce and separation, negativity between parents can deeply [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2025-03-27T16:36:09-04:00Categories: Children & Divorce, Divorce Mediation, Marital Mediation, Mediation Process, Parenting, Videos|Tags: Co-Parenting, Divorce, Divorce and Children, High-Conflict Divorce, Mediation, Parenting, Separation|0 Comments

Co-Parenting After Separation: Prioritizing Your Children’s Well-Being [VIDEO]
Co-Parenting After Separation: Prioritizing Your Children’s Well-Being [VIDEO]

Co-Parenting After Separation: Prioritizing Your Children’s Well-Being [VIDEO]

In this video, Ada shares her mother's wisdom: "If [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2025-03-19T17:32:02-04:00Categories: Divorce Mediation, Mediation Process, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Videos|Tags: Child Well-Being, Co-parenting After Divorce, Co-parenting tips, Divorce, Divorce Support, Family Mediation, Healthy co-parenting, Mediation, Mediation for parents, Parenting after separation, Post-separation support, Separation|0 Comments

Managing a Victim Mentality in Mediation: Overcoming Resistance and Moving Forward [VIDEO]
Managing a Victim Mentality in Mediation: Overcoming Resistance and Moving Forward [VIDEO]

Managing a Victim Mentality in Mediation: Overcoming Resistance and Moving Forward [VIDEO]

Ada Hasloecher from the Divorce and Family Mediation Center [...]

Can’t vs. Won’t: The Power Dynamics in Mediation [VIDEO]
Can’t vs. Won’t: The Power Dynamics in Mediation [VIDEO]

Can’t vs. Won’t: The Power Dynamics in Mediation [VIDEO]

The distinction between can't and won't lies in [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2025-02-27T18:15:17-05:00Categories: Divorce Mediation, Marital Mediation, Videos|Tags: Can't vs. Won't, Conflict Resolution, Conscious vs. unconscious decisions, Divorce, Divorce mediation insights, Effective communication in mediation, Emotional barriers in mediation, Mediation, Mediation challenges, Overcoming mediation roadblocks, Power dynamics in mediation, Separation|0 Comments

Overcoming the Past: Moving Forward in Mediation [VIDEO]
Overcoming the Past: Moving Forward in Mediation [VIDEO]

Overcoming the Past: Moving Forward in Mediation [VIDEO]

Ada Hasloecher, from the Divorce and Family Mediation [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2025-02-19T17:58:46-05:00Categories: Divorce Mediation, Divorce/Separation Emotions, Mediation Process, Videos|Tags: Communication, Conflict Resolution, Divorce, Family Mediation, Letting go of the past, Mediation, Mediation strategies, Moving forward, Relationship challenges, Resolving disputes, Separation|0 Comments

Staying Ahead in Mediation and Guiding the Path Forward [VIDEO]
Staying Ahead in Mediation and Guiding the Path Forward [VIDEO]

Staying Ahead in Mediation and Guiding the Path Forward [VIDEO]

Ada Hasloecher reflects on the tagline “Ahead of [...]

The Real Me! [VIDEO]
The Real Me! [VIDEO]

The Real Me! [VIDEO]

In this blog, Ada emphasizes her personal touch [...]

Understanding Complex Finances in Mediation: Clear Guidance Will Lead to Better Decisions. [VIDEO]
Understanding Complex Finances in Mediation: Clear Guidance Will Lead to Better Decisions. [VIDEO]

Understanding Complex Finances in Mediation: Clear Guidance Will Lead to Better Decisions. [VIDEO]

In this video, Ada shares how mediation can [...]

Leveling the Playing Field in Mediation to Encourage Fair Financial Discussions (video)
Leveling the Playing Field in Mediation to Encourage Fair Financial Discussions (video)

Leveling the Playing Field in Mediation to Encourage Fair Financial Discussions (video)

Leveling the playing field is crucial, especially when [...]

Why Accurate Financial Disclosure Matters in Mediation (VIDEO)
Why Accurate Financial Disclosure Matters in Mediation (VIDEO)

Why Accurate Financial Disclosure Matters in Mediation (VIDEO)

Have you ever been asked to self-report your [...]

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"Almost from the date we signed the Settlement Agreement, it was like a weight was lifted off my shoulders. For the first time in I don’t know how many years, Brenda and I can have a conversation that is not fraught with tension. We can talk peacefully and respectfully to each other - it’s easier to be kind because the hostility is gone. I am not sure if the word “friends” applies but I would say the caring remains, and I am able to be supportive without taking ownership of problems and challenges. I am pleased to say that Brenda has become more than serviceably competent, even in the matter of her finances which she agonized over so profusely. I again thank you for all you did in helping us get through one of the hardest things either of us had to do. There is a peaceful life on the other side. I am glad to say that I am quite pleased that we can both live our lives now without the rancor and animosity. You did a yeoman’s work on our behalf and I, for one am grateful."

Mark H.

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