Ada L. Hasloecher’s Articles at Divorce and Family Mediation Center, LLC

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Divorce Mediator / Center Founder Divorce & Family Mediation Center, LLC Phone: 631-585-5210 eMail: Info@DFMCLI.com 888 Veterans Memorial Highway Suite 500 Hauppauge, NY 11788 Suffolk and Nassau Counties, Long Island, New York

It’s Not Just What You Say—It’s What They Understand [VIDEO]
It’s Not Just What You Say—It’s What They Understand [VIDEO]

It’s Not Just What You Say—It’s What They Understand [VIDEO]

A T-shirt said, "I'm only responsible for what I [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2025-04-30T18:30:35-04:00Categories: Divorce Mediation, Divorce/Separation Emotions, Videos|Tags: Clear Communication, Communication Skills, Divorce, Effective Communication, Healthy Dialogue, Listening Skills, Mediation, Miscommunication, Respectful Communication, Separation, Understanding each other|0 Comments

Bringing Hope and Optimism to Mediation [VIDEO]
Bringing Hope and Optimism to Mediation [VIDEO]

Bringing Hope and Optimism to Mediation [VIDEO]

In this video, Ada briefly explains her positive attitude [...]

Key Provisions in Every Marital Settlement Agreement [VIDEO]
Key Provisions in Every Marital Settlement Agreement [VIDEO]

Key Provisions in Every Marital Settlement Agreement [VIDEO]

Every marital settlement agreement includes provisions on equitable distribution, [...]

Why Boilerplate Language Matters in Your Matrimonial Settlement Agreement [VIDEO]
Why Boilerplate Language Matters in Your Matrimonial Settlement Agreement [VIDEO]

Why Boilerplate Language Matters in Your Matrimonial Settlement Agreement [VIDEO]

Boilerplate language is the standard legal wording included in [...]

Protecting Your Children from Parental Conflict During Divorce [VIDEO]
Protecting Your Children from Parental Conflict During Divorce [VIDEO]

Protecting Your Children from Parental Conflict During Divorce [VIDEO]

During divorce and separation, negativity between parents can deeply [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2025-03-27T16:36:09-04:00Categories: Children & Divorce, Divorce Mediation, Marital Mediation, Mediation Process, Parenting, Videos|Tags: Co-Parenting, Divorce, Divorce and Children, High-Conflict Divorce, Mediation, Parenting, Separation|0 Comments

Co-Parenting After Separation: Prioritizing Your Children’s Well-Being [VIDEO]
Co-Parenting After Separation: Prioritizing Your Children’s Well-Being [VIDEO]

Co-Parenting After Separation: Prioritizing Your Children’s Well-Being [VIDEO]

In this video, Ada shares her mother's wisdom: "If [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2025-03-19T17:32:02-04:00Categories: Divorce Mediation, Mediation Process, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Videos|Tags: Child Well-Being, Co-parenting After Divorce, Co-parenting tips, Divorce, Divorce Support, Family Mediation, Healthy co-parenting, Mediation, Mediation for parents, Parenting after separation, Post-separation support, Separation|0 Comments

Managing a Victim Mentality in Mediation: Overcoming Resistance and Moving Forward [VIDEO]
Managing a Victim Mentality in Mediation: Overcoming Resistance and Moving Forward [VIDEO]

Managing a Victim Mentality in Mediation: Overcoming Resistance and Moving Forward [VIDEO]

Ada Hasloecher from the Divorce and Family Mediation Center [...]

Can’t vs. Won’t: The Power Dynamics in Mediation [VIDEO]
Can’t vs. Won’t: The Power Dynamics in Mediation [VIDEO]

Can’t vs. Won’t: The Power Dynamics in Mediation [VIDEO]

The distinction between can't and won't lies in [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2025-02-27T18:15:17-05:00Categories: Divorce Mediation, Marital Mediation, Videos|Tags: Can't vs. Won't, Conflict Resolution, Conscious vs. unconscious decisions, Divorce, Divorce mediation insights, Effective communication in mediation, Emotional barriers in mediation, Mediation, Mediation challenges, Overcoming mediation roadblocks, Power dynamics in mediation, Separation|0 Comments

Overcoming the Past: Moving Forward in Mediation [VIDEO]
Overcoming the Past: Moving Forward in Mediation [VIDEO]

Overcoming the Past: Moving Forward in Mediation [VIDEO]

Ada Hasloecher, from the Divorce and Family Mediation [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2025-02-19T17:58:46-05:00Categories: Divorce Mediation, Divorce/Separation Emotions, Mediation Process, Videos|Tags: Communication, Conflict Resolution, Divorce, Family Mediation, Letting go of the past, Mediation, Mediation strategies, Moving forward, Relationship challenges, Resolving disputes, Separation|0 Comments

Staying Ahead in Mediation and Guiding the Path Forward [VIDEO]
Staying Ahead in Mediation and Guiding the Path Forward [VIDEO]

Staying Ahead in Mediation and Guiding the Path Forward [VIDEO]

Ada Hasloecher reflects on the tagline “Ahead of [...]

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"Almost from the date we signed the Settlement Agreement, it was like a weight was lifted off my shoulders. For the first time in I don’t know how many years, Brenda and I can have a conversation that is not fraught with tension. We can talk peacefully and respectfully to each other - it’s easier to be kind because the hostility is gone. I am not sure if the word “friends” applies but I would say the caring remains, and I am able to be supportive without taking ownership of problems and challenges. I am pleased to say that Brenda has become more than serviceably competent, even in the matter of her finances which she agonized over so profusely. I again thank you for all you did in helping us get through one of the hardest things either of us had to do. There is a peaceful life on the other side. I am glad to say that I am quite pleased that we can both live our lives now without the rancor and animosity. You did a yeoman’s work on our behalf and I, for one am grateful."

Mark H.

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