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Divorce Mediator / Center Founder Divorce & Family Mediation Center, LLC Phone: 631-585-5210 eMail: Info@DFMCLI.com 888 Veterans Memorial Highway Suite 500 Hauppauge, NY 11788 Suffolk and Nassau Counties, Long Island, New York

Separation/Divorce: No Texting Please!
Separation/Divorce: No Texting Please!

Separation/Divorce: No Texting Please!

I can’t tell you how many times couples will sit [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:35-05:00Categories: Finances & Divorce, General, Mediation Process, Two|Tags: Communication, Divorce, Divorce Mediation, Mediation|2 Comments

Separation/Divorce: Waddya Mean It’s Joint Money??!
Separation/Divorce: Waddya Mean It’s Joint Money??!

Separation/Divorce: Waddya Mean It’s Joint Money??!

“Waddya mean it’s joint money??!” exclaimed [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2019-03-28T23:08:15-04:00Categories: Divorce/Separation Emotions, Finances & Divorce, House & Property, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Two|Tags: Divorce, Divorce Mediation, Mediation, Money, Separation Agreements, Stipulation of Settlement|0 Comments

Separation/Divorce: What Does My Cell Phone Have To Do With Your Mediation?
Separation/Divorce: What Does My Cell Phone Have To Do With Your Mediation?

Separation/Divorce: What Does My Cell Phone Have To Do With Your Mediation?

My smart phone died. It just would not take the [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:36-05:00Categories: Family & Divorce, Mediation Process, Parenting, Perspective, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Two|Tags: Divorce, Divorce Mediation, Legal Separation, Litigation, Mediation|5 Comments

Separation/Divorce: Hoist With Your Own Petard
Separation/Divorce: Hoist With Your Own Petard

Separation/Divorce: Hoist With Your Own Petard

When people ask me what is necessary in order for [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:36-05:00Categories: Divorce/Separation Emotions, General, Perspective, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Two|Tags: Agreement, Child Support, Divorce Financial Planning, Divorce Mediation, Legal Separation, Mediation|1 Comment

Separation/Divorce: Perspective
Separation/Divorce: Perspective

Separation/Divorce: Perspective

I love this word and how it pertains to mediation. [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:36-05:00Categories: Mediation Process, Perspective, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Two|Tags: Communication, Divorce, Divorce Mediation, Legal Separation, Mediation|1 Comment

Separation/Divorce: My Lawyer Said . . .
Separation/Divorce: My Lawyer Said . . .

Separation/Divorce: My Lawyer Said . . .

How many times have I heard the words: “Well, my [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:36-05:00Categories: Children & Divorce, Family & Divorce, Finances & Divorce, General, House & Property, Mediation Process, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Two|Tags: Collaborative Divorce, Communication, Divorce, Divorce Mediation, Legal Separation, Litigation, Mediation|2 Comments

Separation/Divorce: Star Trek Wisdom
Separation/Divorce: Star Trek Wisdom

Separation/Divorce: Star Trek Wisdom

Let me start off by disclaiming that I am not [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:36-05:00Categories: Divorce/Separation Emotions, Family & Divorce, Mediation Process, Perspective, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Two|Tags: Divorce Mediation, Mediation|4 Comments

Separation/Divorce: Irked
Separation/Divorce: Irked

Separation/Divorce: Irked

As I was driving to the office one day in [...]

To Complete or Not To Complete
To Complete or Not To Complete

To Complete or Not To Complete

One of the many advantages of mediation is that clients [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:36-05:00Categories: Children & Divorce, Divorce/Separation Emotions, Family & Divorce, Finances & Divorce, Mediation Process, Perspective, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Three|Tags: Collaborative Divorce, Divorce, Divorce Mediation, Legal Separation, Mediation, Separation Agreements|2 Comments

Separation/Divorce: To Everything There Is A Season
Separation/Divorce: To Everything There Is A Season

Separation/Divorce: To Everything There Is A Season

I attended a monthly dinner meeting a few days ago [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:37-05:00Categories: Divorce/Separation Emotions, Family & Divorce, Mediation Process, Perspective, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Three|Tags: Divorce, Divorce Mediation, Legal Separation, Mediation|1 Comment

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"Almost from the date we signed the Settlement Agreement, it was like a weight was lifted off my shoulders. For the first time in I don’t know how many years, Brenda and I can have a conversation that is not fraught with tension. We can talk peacefully and respectfully to each other - it’s easier to be kind because the hostility is gone. I am not sure if the word “friends” applies but I would say the caring remains, and I am able to be supportive without taking ownership of problems and challenges. I am pleased to say that Brenda has become more than serviceably competent, even in the matter of her finances which she agonized over so profusely. I again thank you for all you did in helping us get through one of the hardest things either of us had to do. There is a peaceful life on the other side. I am glad to say that I am quite pleased that we can both live our lives now without the rancor and animosity. You did a yeoman’s work on our behalf and I, for one am grateful."

Mark H.

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