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About Ada L. Hasloecher

Divorce Mediator / Center Founder Divorce & Family Mediation Center, LLC Phone: 631-585-5210 eMail: Info@DFMCLI.com 888 Veterans Memorial Highway Suite 500 Hauppauge, NY 11788 Suffolk and Nassau Counties, Long Island, New York

Talk About the Little Household Things That Matter Before You Say ‘I Do’ [VIDEO]
Talk About the Little Household Things That Matter Before You Say ‘I Do’ [VIDEO]

Talk About the Little Household Things That Matter Before You Say ‘I Do’ [VIDEO]

Who cooks? Who cleans? Who walks the dog, takes [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2025-11-24T11:34:57-05:00Categories: Divorce Mediation, Marital Mediation, Mediation Process, Videos|Tags: Conflict Prevention, Couples Mediation, Household Chores, Marriage Preparation, Premarital Mediation, Relationship Communication|0 Comments

Aligning with Religion and Spiritual Beliefs [VIDEO]
Aligning with Religion and Spiritual Beliefs [VIDEO]

Aligning with Religion and Spiritual Beliefs [VIDEO]

Before marriage, couples should openly discuss religion and spirituality—whether [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2025-11-19T17:35:16-05:00Categories: Divorce Mediation, Marital Mediation, Mediation Process, Videos|Tags: Communication Before Marriage, Family Planning, Interfaith Relationships, Marriage Preparation, Premarital Mediation, Religion and Spirituality, Respect in Marriage|0 Comments

Managing Friends and Family After Marriage: A Pre-Marital Conversation [VIDEO]
Managing Friends and Family After Marriage: A Pre-Marital Conversation [VIDEO]

Managing Friends and Family After Marriage: A Pre-Marital Conversation [VIDEO]

In this video, Ada discusses the topic of Friends [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2025-10-08T12:15:16-04:00Categories: Divorce Mediation, Family & Divorce, Marital Mediation, Mediation Process, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Videos|Tags: Balancing Social Life and Marriage, Conflict Prevention Before Marriage, Family Involvement in Marriage, Friends and Family Boundaries, Healthy Couple Dynamics, Marriage Preparation Topics, Navigating In-Law Relationships, Pre-Marital Mediation, Relationship Negotiation|0 Comments

Politics, Values, and Vows: A Crucial Conversation Before ‘I Do’ [VIDEO]
Politics, Values, and Vows: A Crucial Conversation Before ‘I Do’ [VIDEO]

Politics, Values, and Vows: A Crucial Conversation Before ‘I Do’ [VIDEO]

In today’s world, political views and worldviews can deeply [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2025-10-03T12:22:47-04:00Categories: Divorce Mediation, Marital Mediation, Mediation Process, Videos|Tags: Marriage Advice, Marriage Conflict Resolution, Political Difference, Premarital Mediation, Relationship Values|0 Comments

It’s Not the Big Stuff That Trips Couples Up—It’s the Little Things Left Unsaid. [VIDEO]
It’s Not the Big Stuff That Trips Couples Up—It’s the Little Things Left Unsaid. [VIDEO]

It’s Not the Big Stuff That Trips Couples Up—It’s the Little Things Left Unsaid. [VIDEO]

Before you get married, it’s worth talking through the [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2025-09-24T16:42:12-04:00Categories: Marital Mediation, Mediation Process, Videos|Tags: Conflict Prevention, Couples Counseling, Healthy Relationships, Marriage Preparation, Marriage Tips, Premarital Counseling, Premarital Mediation, Relationship Advice, Relationship Communication, Relationship Goals, Strong Marriage Foundation, Talk Before Marriage|0 Comments

Before You Say ‘I Do’: Discussing Work-Life Boundaries in Mediation [VIDEO]
Before You Say ‘I Do’: Discussing Work-Life Boundaries in Mediation [VIDEO]

Before You Say ‘I Do’: Discussing Work-Life Boundaries in Mediation [VIDEO]

This video on pre-marital mediation introduces the topic of [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2025-09-10T15:58:36-04:00Categories: Divorce Mediation, Divorce/Separation Emotions, Finances & Divorce, Marital Mediation, Mediation Process, Videos|Tags: Marriage Preparation, Premarital Mediation, Relationship Communication, Work-Life Balance|0 Comments

Money and Marriage: It’s About More Than Dollars and Cents [VIDEO]
Money and Marriage: It’s About More Than Dollars and Cents [VIDEO]

Money and Marriage: It’s About More Than Dollars and Cents [VIDEO]

Many people assume that money alone causes divorce, but [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2025-09-04T18:20:38-04:00Categories: Divorce Mediation, Marital Mediation, Videos|Tags: Divorce Mediation, Financial Issues, Marriage Advice, Money and Marriage, Relationship Values|0 Comments

Plan for Marriage, Not Just the Wedding: Try Premarital Mediation [VIDEO]
Plan for Marriage, Not Just the Wedding: Try Premarital Mediation [VIDEO]

Plan for Marriage, Not Just the Wedding: Try Premarital Mediation [VIDEO]

Premarital mediation is a proactive process where couples discuss [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2025-08-27T12:29:51-04:00Categories: Divorce Mediation, Divorce/Separation Emotions, Marital Mediation, Mediation Process, Videos|Tags: Healthy Relationships, Marriage Preparation, Marriage Success, Marriage Tips, Premarital Counseling, Premarital Mediation, Relationship Goals, Relationship Planning|0 Comments

Exploring the Options: When Parents Disagree About Involving a Child in Mediation [VIDEO]
Exploring the Options: When Parents Disagree About Involving a Child in Mediation [VIDEO]

Exploring the Options: When Parents Disagree About Involving a Child in Mediation [VIDEO]

What happens when one parent wants the child involved in [...]

How I Include and Respect Children in Divorce Mediation [VIDEO]
How I Include and Respect Children in Divorce Mediation [VIDEO]

How I Include and Respect Children in Divorce Mediation [VIDEO]

In divorce mediations involving children, I ensure that children [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2025-08-13T10:55:57-04:00Categories: Children & Divorce, Divorce Mediation, Divorce/Separation Emotions, Family & Divorce, Parenting, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Videos|Tags: Child Advocacy in Mediation, Child Inclusive Mediation, Coparenting, Divorce Mediation, Family Mediation, Mediation With Children, Parental Communication, Supporting Children in Divorce|0 Comments

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"Almost from the date we signed the Settlement Agreement, it was like a weight was lifted off my shoulders. For the first time in I don’t know how many years, Brenda and I can have a conversation that is not fraught with tension. We can talk peacefully and respectfully to each other - it’s easier to be kind because the hostility is gone. I am not sure if the word “friends” applies but I would say the caring remains, and I am able to be supportive without taking ownership of problems and challenges. I am pleased to say that Brenda has become more than serviceably competent, even in the matter of her finances which she agonized over so profusely. I again thank you for all you did in helping us get through one of the hardest things either of us had to do. There is a peaceful life on the other side. I am glad to say that I am quite pleased that we can both live our lives now without the rancor and animosity. You did a yeoman’s work on our behalf and I, for one am grateful."

Mark H.

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