Posts in the Family & Divorce Category at Divorce and Family Mediation Center, LLC, Page 11

“Big Thanks to the Waxing Team!”
“Big Thanks to the Waxing Team!”

“Big Thanks to the Waxing Team!”

“Big Thanks to the Waxing Team!” By far my favorite [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2019-02-13T21:12:53-05:00Categories: Family & Divorce, General, Mediation Process, One, Perspective, Separation & Divorce Mediation|Tags: Ada Hasloecher, Communication, Divorce and Family Mediation Center, Divorce Mediation, Marcus Hellner, Mediation, Mediator, Obstacles, Winter Olympics|4 Comments

The Art and Danger of Distracting Ourselves
The Art and Danger of Distracting Ourselves

The Art and Danger of Distracting Ourselves

Frasier: The five-time Emmy Award winning Best Comedy series, garnering [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:31-05:00Categories: Family & Divorce, General, Mediation Process, Perspective, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Two|Tags: Ada Hasloecher, Agreement, Communication, David Hyde Pierce, Distractions, Divorce and Family Mediation Center, Divorce Mediation, Frasier, Frasier Crane, Kelsey Grammar, Mediation, Niles Crane, Taking Responsibility|3 Comments

Why Am I Declaring January Mediation Month?
Why Am I Declaring January Mediation Month?

Why Am I Declaring January Mediation Month?

Because January is a good month to make this declaration. [...]

Unintended Consequences
Unintended Consequences

Unintended Consequences

Unintended Consequences: This seems to be the new buzz word/expression [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:32-05:00Categories: Family & Divorce, Finances & Divorce, General, Perspective, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Two|Tags: Ada Hasloecher, Children, Co-Parenting Post-Divorce, Divorce, Divorce and Family Mediation Center, Ex-Spouse, Family, Family Events Post-Divorce, Post-Divorce Relationship, Remarriage|5 Comments

Better the Devil You Know
Better the Devil You Know

Better the Devil You Know

Better the devil you know? Really? I’m not so sure [...]

You Are Not Alone
You Are Not Alone

You Are Not Alone

One the many significant tasks that we as mediators do [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:32-05:00Categories: Divorce/Separation Emotions, Family & Divorce, Mediation Process, Perspective, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Two|Tags: Ada Hasloecher, Children and Divorce, Communication, Divorce, Divorce Mediation, Feelings of Loneliness in Divorce, Foreclosure, Normalcy in Divorce, Shame in Divorce|5 Comments

I Don’t Hate Her, She Don’t Hate Me
I Don’t Hate Her, She Don’t Hate Me

I Don’t Hate Her, She Don’t Hate Me

Could there be sweeter words to a mediator’s ears? I [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2019-03-28T22:31:28-04:00Categories: Children & Divorce, Family & Divorce, Finances & Divorce, General, Mediation Process, Parenting, Perspective, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Two|Tags: Ada Hasloecher, Agreement, Children and Divorce, Co-Parenting, Communication, Divorce, Divorce Mediation, Legal Separation, Mediation, Separation Agreements, Successful Mediation|2 Comments

How a Mediation Can Sometimes Feel Like Watching The Weather Channel
How a Mediation Can Sometimes Feel Like Watching The Weather Channel

How a Mediation Can Sometimes Feel Like Watching The Weather Channel

How many times has this happened to you? You get [...]

Your Children Will Thank You
Your Children Will Thank You

Your Children Will Thank You

How many times has this happened to you? Suddenly you [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:34-05:00Categories: Children & Divorce, Family & Divorce, Parenting, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Two|Tags: Amicable Divorce, Children and Divorce, Co-Parenting, Divorce, Divorce Mediation, Legal Separation, Life's Struggles, Mediation, Partnership Post-Divorce|2 Comments

Pre-Cana – Epilogue Part 1
Pre-Cana – Epilogue Part 1

Pre-Cana – Epilogue Part 1

As I mentioned in my previous articles on Pre-Cana, I [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:34-05:00Categories: Children & Divorce, Divorce/Separation Emotions, Family & Divorce, Finances & Divorce, General, Marital Mediation, Parenting, Perspective, Two|Tags: "Life is a Negotiation", Communicating Pre-Marriage, Communication, Compadability with Partner Pre-Marriage, Marriage Preparation, Martial Expectations, Pre-Cana|2 Comments

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"Almost from the date we signed the Settlement Agreement, it was like a weight was lifted off my shoulders. For the first time in I don’t know how many years, Brenda and I can have a conversation that is not fraught with tension. We can talk peacefully and respectfully to each other - it’s easier to be kind because the hostility is gone. I am not sure if the word “friends” applies but I would say the caring remains, and I am able to be supportive without taking ownership of problems and challenges. I am pleased to say that Brenda has become more than serviceably competent, even in the matter of her finances which she agonized over so profusely. I again thank you for all you did in helping us get through one of the hardest things either of us had to do. There is a peaceful life on the other side. I am glad to say that I am quite pleased that we can both live our lives now without the rancor and animosity. You did a yeoman’s work on our behalf and I, for one am grateful."

Mark H.