Posts in the Family & Divorce Category at Divorce and Family Mediation Center, LLC, Page 11

Why Am I Declaring January Mediation Month?
Why Am I Declaring January Mediation Month?

Why Am I Declaring January Mediation Month?

Because January is a good month to make this declaration. [...]

Unintended Consequences
Unintended Consequences

Unintended Consequences

Unintended Consequences: This seems to be the new buzz word/expression [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:32-05:00Categories: Family & Divorce, Finances & Divorce, General, Perspective, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Two|Tags: Ada Hasloecher, Children, Co-Parenting Post-Divorce, Divorce, Divorce and Family Mediation Center, Ex-Spouse, Family, Family Events Post-Divorce, Post-Divorce Relationship, Remarriage|5 Comments

Better the Devil You Know
Better the Devil You Know

Better the Devil You Know

Better the devil you know? Really? I’m not so sure [...]

You Are Not Alone
You Are Not Alone

You Are Not Alone

One the many significant tasks that we as mediators do [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:32-05:00Categories: Divorce/Separation Emotions, Family & Divorce, Mediation Process, Perspective, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Two|Tags: Ada Hasloecher, Children and Divorce, Communication, Divorce, Divorce Mediation, Feelings of Loneliness in Divorce, Foreclosure, Normalcy in Divorce, Shame in Divorce|5 Comments

I Don’t Hate Her, She Don’t Hate Me
I Don’t Hate Her, She Don’t Hate Me

I Don’t Hate Her, She Don’t Hate Me

Could there be sweeter words to a mediator’s ears? I [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2019-03-28T22:31:28-04:00Categories: Children & Divorce, Family & Divorce, Finances & Divorce, General, Mediation Process, Parenting, Perspective, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Two|Tags: Ada Hasloecher, Agreement, Children and Divorce, Co-Parenting, Communication, Divorce, Divorce Mediation, Legal Separation, Mediation, Separation Agreements, Successful Mediation|2 Comments

How a Mediation Can Sometimes Feel Like Watching The Weather Channel
How a Mediation Can Sometimes Feel Like Watching The Weather Channel

How a Mediation Can Sometimes Feel Like Watching The Weather Channel

How many times has this happened to you? You get [...]

Your Children Will Thank You
Your Children Will Thank You

Your Children Will Thank You

How many times has this happened to you? Suddenly you [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:34-05:00Categories: Children & Divorce, Family & Divorce, Parenting, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Two|Tags: Amicable Divorce, Children and Divorce, Co-Parenting, Divorce, Divorce Mediation, Legal Separation, Life's Struggles, Mediation, Partnership Post-Divorce|2 Comments

Pre-Cana – Epilogue Part 1
Pre-Cana – Epilogue Part 1

Pre-Cana – Epilogue Part 1

As I mentioned in my previous articles on Pre-Cana, I [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:34-05:00Categories: Children & Divorce, Divorce/Separation Emotions, Family & Divorce, Finances & Divorce, General, Marital Mediation, Parenting, Perspective, Two|Tags: "Life is a Negotiation", Communicating Pre-Marriage, Communication, Compadability with Partner Pre-Marriage, Marriage Preparation, Martial Expectations, Pre-Cana|2 Comments

Separation Partners
Separation Partners

Separation Partners

I know this title may seem like an oxymoron of [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:34-05:00Categories: Family & Divorce, Parenting, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Two|Tags: Communication, Divorce, Divorce Mediation, Marriage as Friendship, Marriage as Partnership, Mediation, Parenting Plans|0 Comments

Buddies or Partners – An Anatomy of a Marriage
Buddies or Partners – An Anatomy of a Marriage

Buddies or Partners – An Anatomy of a Marriage

In the almost ten years that I have been mediating [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:34-05:00Categories: Family & Divorce, Parenting, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Two|Tags: Do You Like Your Partner?, Marriage, Marriage as Partnership, Obstacles in Marriage, Success in Marriage, Through Richer or Poorer, Through Sickness and Health|1 Comment

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"Almost from the date we signed the Settlement Agreement, it was like a weight was lifted off my shoulders. For the first time in I don’t know how many years, Brenda and I can have a conversation that is not fraught with tension. We can talk peacefully and respectfully to each other - it’s easier to be kind because the hostility is gone. I am not sure if the word “friends” applies but I would say the caring remains, and I am able to be supportive without taking ownership of problems and challenges. I am pleased to say that Brenda has become more than serviceably competent, even in the matter of her finances which she agonized over so profusely. I again thank you for all you did in helping us get through one of the hardest things either of us had to do. There is a peaceful life on the other side. I am glad to say that I am quite pleased that we can both live our lives now without the rancor and animosity. You did a yeoman’s work on our behalf and I, for one am grateful."

Mark H.