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Conduct Becoming
Conduct Becoming

Conduct Becoming

As part of my summer reading, I just finished a [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:33-05:00Categories: Divorce/Separation Emotions, General, Perspective, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Two|Tags: Ada Hasloecher, Diplomat, Divorce Mediation, Elizabeth the Queen, Mediation, Queen Elizabeth II, Separation Agreements, The Life of a Modern Monarch, Winston Churchill|6 Comments

Leaning Back, Thinking Forward
Leaning Back, Thinking Forward

Leaning Back, Thinking Forward

The prevailing wisdom in mediation is that we start with [...]

I Don’t Hate Her, She Don’t Hate Me
I Don’t Hate Her, She Don’t Hate Me

I Don’t Hate Her, She Don’t Hate Me

Could there be sweeter words to a mediator’s ears? I [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2019-03-28T22:31:28-04:00Categories: Children & Divorce, Family & Divorce, Finances & Divorce, General, Mediation Process, Parenting, Perspective, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Two|Tags: Ada Hasloecher, Agreement, Children and Divorce, Co-Parenting, Communication, Divorce, Divorce Mediation, Legal Separation, Mediation, Separation Agreements, Successful Mediation|2 Comments

How a Mediation Can Sometimes Feel Like Watching The Weather Channel
How a Mediation Can Sometimes Feel Like Watching The Weather Channel

How a Mediation Can Sometimes Feel Like Watching The Weather Channel

How many times has this happened to you? You get [...]

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One of the things I most look forward to is [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:33-05:00Categories: Divorce/Separation Emotions, General, Mediation Process, Two|Tags: Communicating Post-Break-up, Couple Communication, Divorce, Divorce Mediation, Heart Break, Mediation, Pain After Break-up, Relationship Closure|2 Comments

Pre-Cana – Epilogue Part 2
Pre-Cana – Epilogue Part 2

Pre-Cana – Epilogue Part 2

In Part 1 of the Pre-Cana - Epilogue, I covered [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2019-03-28T22:58:53-04:00Categories: Divorce/Separation Emotions, Finances & Divorce, General, Marital Mediation, Perspective, Two|Tags: Communicating Pre-Marriage, Communication, Compadability with Partner Pre-Marriage, Do You Like Your Partner?, Marriage as Partnership, Marriage Preparation, Martial Expectations, Pre-Cana, Preconceptions of Family|2 Comments

Pre-Cana – Epilogue Part 1
Pre-Cana – Epilogue Part 1

Pre-Cana – Epilogue Part 1

As I mentioned in my previous articles on Pre-Cana, I [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:34-05:00Categories: Children & Divorce, Divorce/Separation Emotions, Family & Divorce, Finances & Divorce, General, Marital Mediation, Parenting, Perspective, Two|Tags: "Life is a Negotiation", Communicating Pre-Marriage, Communication, Compadability with Partner Pre-Marriage, Marriage Preparation, Martial Expectations, Pre-Cana|2 Comments

Thoughts on Pre-Cana and How it Relates to Mediation – Part 2
Thoughts on Pre-Cana and How it Relates to Mediation – Part 2

Thoughts on Pre-Cana and How it Relates to Mediation – Part 2

Part 1 of this series talked about the Pre-Cana classes [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:35-05:00Categories: Children & Divorce, Divorce/Separation Emotions, Family & Divorce, Finances & Divorce, General, Marital Mediation, Parenting, Perspective, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Two|Tags: Marriage, Marriage Preparation, Martial Expectations, Mediation, Pre-Cana|0 Comments

Why Do Mediation Organizations Matter To Our Clients?
Why Do Mediation Organizations Matter To Our Clients?

Why Do Mediation Organizations Matter To Our Clients?

I just returned from the inaugural Conference of the Academy [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:35-05:00Categories: General, Two|Tags: Mediation, Mediation and Elder Care Issues, Mediation for Family Business Issues, Pre and Postnuptial Agreements, The Academy of Professional Family Mediators|0 Comments

Thoughts on Pre-Cana and How it Relates to Mediation
Thoughts on Pre-Cana and How it Relates to Mediation

Thoughts on Pre-Cana and How it Relates to Mediation

As a divorce and family mediator, I often wonder what [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:35-05:00Categories: Children & Divorce, Divorce/Separation Emotions, Family & Divorce, Finances & Divorce, General, Marital Mediation, Parenting, Perspective, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Two|Tags: Communication, Marriage, Marriage Preparation, Pre-Cana|3 Comments

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"Almost from the date we signed the Settlement Agreement, it was like a weight was lifted off my shoulders. For the first time in I don’t know how many years, Brenda and I can have a conversation that is not fraught with tension. We can talk peacefully and respectfully to each other - it’s easier to be kind because the hostility is gone. I am not sure if the word “friends” applies but I would say the caring remains, and I am able to be supportive without taking ownership of problems and challenges. I am pleased to say that Brenda has become more than serviceably competent, even in the matter of her finances which she agonized over so profusely. I again thank you for all you did in helping us get through one of the hardest things either of us had to do. There is a peaceful life on the other side. I am glad to say that I am quite pleased that we can both live our lives now without the rancor and animosity. You did a yeoman’s work on our behalf and I, for one am grateful."

Mark H.