Posts in the Mediation Process Category at Divorce and Family Mediation Center, LLC, Page 6

Getting Help Managing Your Pre & Post-Divorce Financial Life and… Where the Heck Is All That Paperwork Anyway??
Getting Help Managing Your Pre & Post-Divorce Financial Life and… Where the Heck Is All That Paperwork Anyway??

Getting Help Managing Your Pre & Post-Divorce Financial Life and… Where the Heck Is All That Paperwork Anyway??

{3:36 minutes to read} This month, I am hosting an [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2019-02-13T20:03:47-05:00Categories: Finances & Divorce, House & Property, Mediation Process, Post Separation/Divorce|Tags: Certified Financial Planner, Divorce Financial Professional, Financial Confidence, Post Divorce Financial Life, Tommie Michalik|0 Comments

I Have a Feeling
I Have a Feeling

I Have a Feeling

{4 minutes to read} Spring in the Northeast brought [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2018-06-26T09:50:03-04:00Categories: Children & Divorce, Divorce/Separation Emotions, Family & Divorce, Finances & Divorce, Mediation Process, Parenting, Perspective|Tags: Co-Parenting, Divorce Agreement, Mediation, Negotiation, Optimism, Post-Divorce Parenting|0 Comments

A Moral Agreement vs. a Legal Agreement
A Moral Agreement vs. a Legal Agreement

A Moral Agreement vs. a Legal Agreement

{4:24 minutes to read} In May, I attended the [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2018-06-12T13:56:43-04:00Categories: Divorce/Separation Emotions, Family & Divorce, Mediation Process, Perspective, Separation & Divorce Mediation|Tags: Divorce Agreement, Fair Divorce, Legal Agreement, Moral Agreement, Morality in Divorce, New York State Council on Divorce Mediation|3 Comments

How We Mediators Don’t Get Jaded by Our Work
How We Mediators Don’t Get Jaded by Our Work

How We Mediators Don’t Get Jaded by Our Work

{4 minutes to read} I’m so often asked if [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2018-05-02T13:11:16-04:00Categories: Divorce/Separation Emotions, Family & Divorce, Mediation Process, Mediation Success Stories, Perspective, Separation & Divorce Mediation|Tags: Career, Mediation, Mediator|0 Comments

Divorce Mediation: Beware of the Wolf in Sheep’s Clothing
Divorce Mediation: Beware of the Wolf in Sheep’s Clothing

Divorce Mediation: Beware of the Wolf in Sheep’s Clothing

{3:30 minutes to read} There [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2018-04-04T15:02:29-04:00Categories: Divorce/Separation Emotions, Family & Divorce, Mediation Process, Perspective, Separation & Divorce Mediation|Tags: ADR (alternative dispute resolution), Divorce Mediation, Mediation Training|0 Comments

Move the Cotton from Your Ears to Your Mouth!
Move the Cotton from Your Ears to Your Mouth!

Move the Cotton from Your Ears to Your Mouth!

{2:58 minutes to read} This past December, as I [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2018-03-07T13:30:31-05:00Categories: Divorce/Separation Emotions, Family & Divorce, Mediation Process, Perspective, Post Separation/Divorce, Separation & Divorce Mediation|Tags: Active Listening, Claudia Ragni, Communication, Divorce, Long Island chapter of the Employee Assistance Professional Association (EAPA), Mediation, The Kenneth Peters Center for Recovery|1 Comment

Is the Beeping Bad?
Is the Beeping Bad?

Is the Beeping Bad?

{3:30 minutes to read} I have a friend whose [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2018-02-21T05:22:10-05:00Categories: Divorce/Separation Emotions, Family & Divorce, Mediation Process, Perspective, Separation & Divorce Mediation|Tags: Divorce Mediation, Divorce Process, Mediation|0 Comments

Abraham Lincoln Was RIGHT!
Abraham Lincoln Was RIGHT!

Abraham Lincoln Was RIGHT!

“Discourage litigation. Persuade your neighbors to compromise whenever you [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2018-02-07T14:07:53-05:00Categories: Divorce/Separation Emotions, Family & Divorce, Finances & Divorce, Mediation Process, Perspective, Separation & Divorce Mediation|Tags: Abraham Lincoln, Compromise, Divorce, Litigation, Mediation|1 Comment

Detaching Doesn’t Mean You Don’t Care
Detaching Doesn’t Mean You Don’t Care

Detaching Doesn’t Mean You Don’t Care

{3:40 minutes to read} Ahhh – this is a [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2018-01-25T14:18:28-05:00Categories: Divorce/Separation Emotions, Mediation Process, Perspective, Post Separation/Divorce, Separation & Divorce Mediation|Tags: Detachment, Love, Mediation|1 Comment

Getting Through vs. Getting Over: Why Mediation Is Your Best Bet
Getting Through vs. Getting Over: Why Mediation Is Your Best Bet

Getting Through vs. Getting Over: Why Mediation Is Your Best Bet

{3:48 minutes to read} First – let me wish [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2018-01-11T13:38:10-05:00Categories: Divorce/Separation Emotions, Family & Divorce, Mediation Process, Perspective, Separation & Divorce Mediation|Tags: Grief, Mediation, overcoming struggle, Separation|2 Comments

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"Almost from the date we signed the Settlement Agreement, it was like a weight was lifted off my shoulders. For the first time in I don’t know how many years, Brenda and I can have a conversation that is not fraught with tension. We can talk peacefully and respectfully to each other - it’s easier to be kind because the hostility is gone. I am not sure if the word “friends” applies but I would say the caring remains, and I am able to be supportive without taking ownership of problems and challenges. I am pleased to say that Brenda has become more than serviceably competent, even in the matter of her finances which she agonized over so profusely. I again thank you for all you did in helping us get through one of the hardest things either of us had to do. There is a peaceful life on the other side. I am glad to say that I am quite pleased that we can both live our lives now without the rancor and animosity. You did a yeoman’s work on our behalf and I, for one am grateful."

Mark H.

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