It’s Not the Big Stuff That Trips Couples Up—It’s the Little Things Left Unsaid. [VIDEO]
Before you get married, it’s worth talking through the “little things” that can turn into big issues later. Is it OK to enjoy hobbies or events on your own [...]
Before You Say ‘I Do’: Discussing Work-Life Boundaries in Mediation [VIDEO]
This video on pre-marital mediation introduces the topic of work-life balance as an essential discussion for couples before marriage. Partners are encouraged to explore whether they are aligned on [...]
Plan for Marriage, Not Just the Wedding: Try Premarital Mediation [VIDEO]
Premarital mediation is a proactive process where couples discuss important topics before getting married to help prevent future conflicts. This video emphasizes the value of premarital mediation in addressing [...]
Why Every Couple Needs a Contract — Married or Not [VIDEO]
Most people wouldn’t make major financial decisions, such as buying a house or car, without a contract; yet, many couples enter into relationships without written agreements regarding shared property [...]
Why Unmarried Couples Should Plan Ahead: Legal Protections, Property, and Parenthood [VIDEO]
If you're planning to move in with your partner, buy property together, or have children, it's important to consider the legal implications, especially if you're not married. Without marriage [...]
A Snowstorm, Mediation, and Your Financial Future [VIDEO]
Last year, someone told me in mid-October, “I hear we’re going to have a big snowstorm on Thanksgiving.” That didn’t actually happen, but what struck me is how much [...]
How a Financial Professional Can Empower Both Spouses in Divorce Mediation [VIDEO]
In mediation, when one spouse lacks financial confidence or understanding, I bring in a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA) to help. The CDFA works with both parties to explain [...]
When Self-Doubt Emerges in Mediation, a Lack of Confidence — Not Conflict — Can Derail the Process [VIDEO]
This video discusses how, in mediation, a spouse's lack of self-trust, particularly around decision-making, can disrupt the process. This often shows up with financial matters, especially when one spouse [...]
Why Doing Nothing Is Sometimes the Best First Step in Mediation [VIDEO]
A quote inspired by Lao Tzu: "The best way to settle muddy water is to do nothing." The quote relates this to mediation, explaining that in the midst of [...]