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About Ada L. Hasloecher

Divorce Mediator / Center Founder Divorce & Family Mediation Center, LLC Phone: 631-585-5210 eMail: Info@DFMCLI.com 888 Veterans Memorial Highway Suite 500 Hauppauge, NY 11788 Suffolk and Nassau Counties, Long Island, New York

Academy of Professional Family Mediators Launch
Academy of Professional Family Mediators Launch

Academy of Professional Family Mediators Launch

I am pleased to announce the launch of a new [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:35-05:00Categories: General, Mediation Process, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Two|Tags: APFM, Divorce Mediation, Mediation, The Academy of Professional Family Mediators|3 Comments

Do You Always Have to Have it Your Way?
Do You Always Have to Have it Your Way?

Do You Always Have to Have it Your Way?

Who hasn’t been there at one time or another; caught [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:35-05:00Categories: Divorce/Separation Emotions, Family & Divorce, Finances & Divorce, Mediation Process, Perspective, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Two|Tags: Agreement, Child Support, Communication, Divorce Financial Planning, Divorce Mediation, Mediation, Money|1 Comment

Separation/Divorce: In A Client’s Own Words: Why Mediation?
Separation/Divorce: In A Client’s Own Words: Why Mediation?

Separation/Divorce: In A Client’s Own Words: Why Mediation?

I love sharing stories like this. It not only warms [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2019-03-28T22:49:23-04:00Categories: Children & Divorce, Divorce/Separation Emotions, Family & Divorce, Mediation Process, Perspective, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Two|Tags: Divorce Litigation, Divorce Mediation, Marriage Reconciliation, Remarry with Kids, Remarrying after Divorce|5 Comments

Separation/Divorce: No Texting Please!
Separation/Divorce: No Texting Please!

Separation/Divorce: No Texting Please!

I can’t tell you how many times couples will sit [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:35-05:00Categories: Finances & Divorce, General, Mediation Process, Two|Tags: Communication, Divorce, Divorce Mediation, Mediation|1 Comment

Separation/Divorce: Waddya Mean It’s Joint Money??!
Separation/Divorce: Waddya Mean It’s Joint Money??!

Separation/Divorce: Waddya Mean It’s Joint Money??!

“Waddya mean it’s joint money??!” exclaimed [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2019-03-28T23:08:15-04:00Categories: Divorce/Separation Emotions, Finances & Divorce, House & Property, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Two|Tags: Divorce, Divorce Mediation, Mediation, Money, Separation Agreements, Stipulation of Settlement|0 Comments

Separation/Divorce: What Does My Cell Phone Have To Do With Your Mediation?
Separation/Divorce: What Does My Cell Phone Have To Do With Your Mediation?

Separation/Divorce: What Does My Cell Phone Have To Do With Your Mediation?

My smart phone died. It just would not take the [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:36-05:00Categories: Family & Divorce, Mediation Process, Parenting, Perspective, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Two|Tags: Divorce, Divorce Mediation, Legal Separation, Litigation, Mediation|5 Comments

Separation/Divorce: Hoist With Your Own Petard
Separation/Divorce: Hoist With Your Own Petard

Separation/Divorce: Hoist With Your Own Petard

When people ask me what is necessary in order for [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:36-05:00Categories: Divorce/Separation Emotions, General, Perspective, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Two|Tags: Agreement, Child Support, Divorce Financial Planning, Divorce Mediation, Legal Separation, Mediation|1 Comment

Separation/Divorce: Perspective
Separation/Divorce: Perspective

Separation/Divorce: Perspective

I love this word and how it pertains to mediation. [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:36-05:00Categories: Mediation Process, Perspective, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Two|Tags: Communication, Divorce, Divorce Mediation, Legal Separation, Mediation|1 Comment

Separation/Divorce: My Lawyer Said . . .
Separation/Divorce: My Lawyer Said . . .

Separation/Divorce: My Lawyer Said . . .

How many times have I heard the words: “Well, my [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:36-05:00Categories: Children & Divorce, Family & Divorce, Finances & Divorce, General, House & Property, Mediation Process, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Two|Tags: Collaborative Divorce, Communication, Divorce, Divorce Mediation, Legal Separation, Litigation, Mediation|2 Comments

Separation/Divorce: Star Trek Wisdom
Separation/Divorce: Star Trek Wisdom

Separation/Divorce: Star Trek Wisdom

Let me start off by disclaiming that I am not [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:36-05:00Categories: Divorce/Separation Emotions, Family & Divorce, Mediation Process, Perspective, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Two|Tags: Divorce Mediation, Mediation|4 Comments

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"Almost from the date we signed the Settlement Agreement, it was like a weight was lifted off my shoulders. For the first time in I don’t know how many years, Brenda and I can have a conversation that is not fraught with tension. We can talk peacefully and respectfully to each other - it’s easier to be kind because the hostility is gone. I am not sure if the word “friends” applies but I would say the caring remains, and I am able to be supportive without taking ownership of problems and challenges. I am pleased to say that Brenda has become more than serviceably competent, even in the matter of her finances which she agonized over so profusely. I again thank you for all you did in helping us get through one of the hardest things either of us had to do. There is a peaceful life on the other side. I am glad to say that I am quite pleased that we can both live our lives now without the rancor and animosity. You did a yeoman’s work on our behalf and I, for one am grateful."

Mark H.

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