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Divorce Mediator / Center Founder Divorce & Family Mediation Center, LLC Phone: 631-585-5210 eMail: Info@DFMCLI.com 888 Veterans Memorial Highway Suite 500 Hauppauge, NY 11788 Suffolk and Nassau Counties, Long Island, New York

Managing Expectations Post-Separation or Divorce (video)
Managing Expectations Post-Separation or Divorce (video)

Managing Expectations Post-Separation or Divorce (video)

In my last video, we discussed managing expectations [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2024-03-06T12:16:13-05:00Categories: Finances & Divorce, Videos|Tags: Communication Post-Divorce, Divorce, Finances Post-Divorce, Mediation, Separation|0 Comments

Maintenance and Child Support Re-Visited (video)
Maintenance and Child Support Re-Visited (video)

Maintenance and Child Support Re-Visited (video)

Maintenance (Spousal Support) and Child Support are two [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2024-02-21T18:05:07-05:00Categories: Children & Divorce, Divorce Mediation, Finances & Divorce, Videos|Tags: Child Support, Divorce, Maintenance, Mediation, Separation, Spousal Support|0 Comments

From One Cockeyed Optimist to Another (video)
From One Cockeyed Optimist to Another (video)

From One Cockeyed Optimist to Another (video)

I want to share a line from a [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2024-02-05T11:57:26-05:00Categories: Mediation Process, Perspective, Videos|Tags: Divorce, Mediation, Separation, The Power of Optimism|0 Comments

Separated but Still Living Together in the Marital Home (video)
Separated but Still Living Together in the Marital Home (video)

Separated but Still Living Together in the Marital Home (video)

Mediation is a self-determining process, and most couples want [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2024-01-23T13:34:50-05:00Categories: Children & Divorce, Family & Divorce, House & Property, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Videos|Tags: Divorce, Marital Home, Mediation, Self-Determination, Separation|0 Comments

The Marital Home in Inflationary Times (video)
The Marital Home in Inflationary Times (video)

The Marital Home in Inflationary Times (video)

In previous videos, I’ve talked about the higher [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2023-12-14T14:00:48-05:00Categories: Finances & Divorce, Mediation Process, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Videos|Tags: Divorce, Inflationary Times, Marital Home, Mediation, Postnup, Prenup, Refinance, Selling, Separation|0 Comments

The Marital Home — Part 2
The Marital Home — Part 2

The Marital Home — Part 2

Faced with the high-interest rates on home mortgages, [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2023-11-30T10:37:41-05:00Categories: Children & Divorce, Divorce Mediation, Finances & Divorce, House & Property, Mediation Process, Videos|Tags: Divorce, Living Separate Lives Together, Marital Home, Mediation, Mortgage Interest, Postnup Agreement, Refinance, Separation|0 Comments

The Marital Home — Part 1
The Marital Home — Part 1

The Marital Home — Part 1

One of the most important topics in any [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2023-11-10T14:02:24-05:00Categories: Children & Divorce, Finances & Divorce|Tags: Buyout, Divorce, Marital Home, Mediation, Separation|0 Comments

College Education for Your Children After Divorce Part 4 (video)
College Education for Your Children After Divorce Part 4 (video)

College Education for Your Children After Divorce Part 4 (video)

How are you, as parents, planning to pay [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2023-10-23T14:48:53-04:00Categories: Children & Divorce, Finances & Divorce, Parenting, Post Separation/Divorce, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Videos|Tags: 529 College Savings Account, Divorce, Financing College After Divorce, Mediation, Separation|0 Comments

College Education for Your Children After Divorce Part 3 (video)
College Education for Your Children After Divorce Part 3 (video)

College Education for Your Children After Divorce Part 3 (video)

Most parents, if they're planning to pay for [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2023-10-12T12:29:38-04:00Categories: Children & Divorce, Divorce Mediation, Finances & Divorce, Videos|Tags: 529 College Savings Account, Divorce, Financing College After Divorce, Mediation, Separation|0 Comments

College Education for Your Children Part 2 (video)
College Education for Your Children Part 2 (video)

College Education for Your Children Part 2 (video)

Even if your children are young, you need [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2023-09-28T14:20:37-04:00Categories: Children & Divorce, Parenting, Post Separation/Divorce, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Videos|Tags: College Education, Divorce, Divorce and College, Mediation, Planning for Your Child’s Education, Separation|0 Comments

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"Almost from the date we signed the Settlement Agreement, it was like a weight was lifted off my shoulders. For the first time in I don’t know how many years, Brenda and I can have a conversation that is not fraught with tension. We can talk peacefully and respectfully to each other - it’s easier to be kind because the hostility is gone. I am not sure if the word “friends” applies but I would say the caring remains, and I am able to be supportive without taking ownership of problems and challenges. I am pleased to say that Brenda has become more than serviceably competent, even in the matter of her finances which she agonized over so profusely. I again thank you for all you did in helping us get through one of the hardest things either of us had to do. There is a peaceful life on the other side. I am glad to say that I am quite pleased that we can both live our lives now without the rancor and animosity. You did a yeoman’s work on our behalf and I, for one am grateful."

Mark H.