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About Ada L. Hasloecher

Divorce Mediator / Center Founder Divorce & Family Mediation Center, LLC Phone: 631-585-5210 eMail: Info@DFMCLI.com 888 Veterans Memorial Highway Suite 500 Hauppauge, NY 11788 Suffolk and Nassau Counties, Long Island, New York

I Don’t Hate Her, She Don’t Hate Me
I Don’t Hate Her, She Don’t Hate Me

I Don’t Hate Her, She Don’t Hate Me

Could there be sweeter words to a mediator’s ears? I [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2019-03-28T22:31:28-04:00Categories: Children & Divorce, Family & Divorce, Finances & Divorce, General, Mediation Process, Parenting, Perspective, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Two|Tags: Ada Hasloecher, Agreement, Children and Divorce, Co-Parenting, Communication, Divorce, Divorce Mediation, Legal Separation, Mediation, Separation Agreements, Successful Mediation|2 Comments

How a Mediation Can Sometimes Feel Like Watching The Weather Channel
How a Mediation Can Sometimes Feel Like Watching The Weather Channel

How a Mediation Can Sometimes Feel Like Watching The Weather Channel

How many times has this happened to you? You get [...]

Ill Equipped
Ill Equipped

Ill Equipped

Before I meet with a new couple, I remind myself [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:33-05:00Categories: Divorce/Separation Emotions, Finances & Divorce, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Two|Tags: Anger in Divorce, Bitterness in Divorce, Children and Divorce, Co-Parenting, Divorce, Divorce Mediation, Financial Burdens and Divorce, Forgiveness in Divorce, Mediation|2 Comments

A Must Read for Every Parent
A Must Read for Every Parent

A Must Read for Every Parent

My sister is a high school English teacher. While reading [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:33-05:00Categories: Children & Divorce, Parenting, Perspective, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Two|Tags: Ada L Hasloecher, Divorce, Divorce Mediation, Effect of Divorce on Children, Post-Divorce Blended Family, Teenagers and Divorce|8 Comments

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Expletives Deleted

One of the things I most look forward to is [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:33-05:00Categories: Divorce/Separation Emotions, General, Mediation Process, Two|Tags: Communicating Post-Break-up, Couple Communication, Divorce, Divorce Mediation, Heart Break, Mediation, Pain After Break-up, Relationship Closure|2 Comments

Buddies or Partners – The Anatomy of Post-Separation Relationship
Buddies or Partners – The Anatomy of Post-Separation Relationship

Buddies or Partners – The Anatomy of Post-Separation Relationship

In Buddies or Partners – The Anatomy of a [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2019-03-28T23:53:32-04:00Categories: Post Separation/Divorce, Two|Tags: "Friendly" Divorce, Agreement, Co-Parenting, Co-Parenting Post-Divorce, Communication, Divorce, Divorce Mediation, Legal Separation, Mediation, Parent-Child Relationship, Parenting Plans, Partnership with Ex-Spouse, Separation Agreements|1 Comment

Your Children Will Thank You
Your Children Will Thank You

Your Children Will Thank You

How many times has this happened to you? Suddenly you [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:34-05:00Categories: Children & Divorce, Family & Divorce, Parenting, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Two|Tags: Amicable Divorce, Children and Divorce, Co-Parenting, Divorce, Divorce Mediation, Legal Separation, Life's Struggles, Mediation, Partnership Post-Divorce|2 Comments

Pre-Cana – Epilogue Part 2
Pre-Cana – Epilogue Part 2

Pre-Cana – Epilogue Part 2

In Part 1 of the Pre-Cana - Epilogue, I covered [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2019-03-28T22:58:53-04:00Categories: Divorce/Separation Emotions, Finances & Divorce, General, Marital Mediation, Perspective, Two|Tags: Communicating Pre-Marriage, Communication, Compadability with Partner Pre-Marriage, Do You Like Your Partner?, Marriage as Partnership, Marriage Preparation, Martial Expectations, Pre-Cana, Preconceptions of Family|2 Comments

Pre-Cana – Epilogue Part 1
Pre-Cana – Epilogue Part 1

Pre-Cana – Epilogue Part 1

As I mentioned in my previous articles on Pre-Cana, I [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:34-05:00Categories: Children & Divorce, Divorce/Separation Emotions, Family & Divorce, Finances & Divorce, General, Marital Mediation, Parenting, Perspective, Two|Tags: "Life is a Negotiation", Communicating Pre-Marriage, Communication, Compadability with Partner Pre-Marriage, Marriage Preparation, Martial Expectations, Pre-Cana|2 Comments

Separation Partners
Separation Partners

Separation Partners

I know this title may seem like an oxymoron of [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:34-05:00Categories: Family & Divorce, Parenting, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Two|Tags: Communication, Divorce, Divorce Mediation, Marriage as Friendship, Marriage as Partnership, Mediation, Parenting Plans|0 Comments

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"Almost from the date we signed the Settlement Agreement, it was like a weight was lifted off my shoulders. For the first time in I don’t know how many years, Brenda and I can have a conversation that is not fraught with tension. We can talk peacefully and respectfully to each other - it’s easier to be kind because the hostility is gone. I am not sure if the word “friends” applies but I would say the caring remains, and I am able to be supportive without taking ownership of problems and challenges. I am pleased to say that Brenda has become more than serviceably competent, even in the matter of her finances which she agonized over so profusely. I again thank you for all you did in helping us get through one of the hardest things either of us had to do. There is a peaceful life on the other side. I am glad to say that I am quite pleased that we can both live our lives now without the rancor and animosity. You did a yeoman’s work on our behalf and I, for one am grateful."

Mark H.