Posts in the Divorce/Separation Emotions Category at Divorce and Family Mediation Center, LLC, Page 12

Holidays Schmolidays – Let’s Call the Whole Thing Off!
Holidays Schmolidays – Let’s Call the Whole Thing Off!

Holidays Schmolidays – Let’s Call the Whole Thing Off!

When you are going through a separation or divorce and [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2019-03-28T22:25:30-04:00Categories: Divorce/Separation Emotions, General, Perspective, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Two|Tags: Ada Hasloecher, Divorce, Divorce and Family Mediation Center, Divorce Mediation, Holidays During Divorce, Legal Separation, Loneliness, Lonely During Holidays, Separated|1 Comment

Better the Devil You Know
Better the Devil You Know

Better the Devil You Know

Better the devil you know? Really? I’m not so sure [...]

You Are Not Alone
You Are Not Alone

You Are Not Alone

One the many significant tasks that we as mediators do [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:32-05:00Categories: Divorce/Separation Emotions, Family & Divorce, Mediation Process, Perspective, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Two|Tags: Ada Hasloecher, Children and Divorce, Communication, Divorce, Divorce Mediation, Feelings of Loneliness in Divorce, Foreclosure, Normalcy in Divorce, Shame in Divorce|5 Comments

Conduct Becoming
Conduct Becoming

Conduct Becoming

As part of my summer reading, I just finished a [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:33-05:00Categories: Divorce/Separation Emotions, General, Perspective, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Two|Tags: Ada Hasloecher, Diplomat, Divorce Mediation, Elizabeth the Queen, Mediation, Queen Elizabeth II, Separation Agreements, The Life of a Modern Monarch, Winston Churchill|6 Comments

How a Mediation Can Sometimes Feel Like Watching The Weather Channel
How a Mediation Can Sometimes Feel Like Watching The Weather Channel

How a Mediation Can Sometimes Feel Like Watching The Weather Channel

How many times has this happened to you? You get [...]

Ill Equipped
Ill Equipped

Ill Equipped

Before I meet with a new couple, I remind myself [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:33-05:00Categories: Divorce/Separation Emotions, Finances & Divorce, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Two|Tags: Anger in Divorce, Bitterness in Divorce, Children and Divorce, Co-Parenting, Divorce, Divorce Mediation, Financial Burdens and Divorce, Forgiveness in Divorce, Mediation|2 Comments

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One of the things I most look forward to is [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:33-05:00Categories: Divorce/Separation Emotions, General, Mediation Process, Two|Tags: Communicating Post-Break-up, Couple Communication, Divorce, Divorce Mediation, Heart Break, Mediation, Pain After Break-up, Relationship Closure|2 Comments

Pre-Cana – Epilogue Part 2
Pre-Cana – Epilogue Part 2

Pre-Cana – Epilogue Part 2

In Part 1 of the Pre-Cana - Epilogue, I covered [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2019-03-28T22:58:53-04:00Categories: Divorce/Separation Emotions, Finances & Divorce, General, Marital Mediation, Perspective, Two|Tags: Communicating Pre-Marriage, Communication, Compadability with Partner Pre-Marriage, Do You Like Your Partner?, Marriage as Partnership, Marriage Preparation, Martial Expectations, Pre-Cana, Preconceptions of Family|2 Comments

Pre-Cana – Epilogue Part 1
Pre-Cana – Epilogue Part 1

Pre-Cana – Epilogue Part 1

As I mentioned in my previous articles on Pre-Cana, I [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:34-05:00Categories: Children & Divorce, Divorce/Separation Emotions, Family & Divorce, Finances & Divorce, General, Marital Mediation, Parenting, Perspective, Two|Tags: "Life is a Negotiation", Communicating Pre-Marriage, Communication, Compadability with Partner Pre-Marriage, Marriage Preparation, Martial Expectations, Pre-Cana|2 Comments

Thoughts on Pre-Cana and How it Relates to Mediation – Part 2
Thoughts on Pre-Cana and How it Relates to Mediation – Part 2

Thoughts on Pre-Cana and How it Relates to Mediation – Part 2

Part 1 of this series talked about the Pre-Cana classes [...]

Ada L. Hasloecher2017-01-24T05:11:35-05:00Categories: Children & Divorce, Divorce/Separation Emotions, Family & Divorce, Finances & Divorce, General, Marital Mediation, Parenting, Perspective, Separation & Divorce Mediation, Two|Tags: Marriage, Marriage Preparation, Martial Expectations, Mediation, Pre-Cana|0 Comments

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"Almost from the date we signed the Settlement Agreement, it was like a weight was lifted off my shoulders. For the first time in I don’t know how many years, Brenda and I can have a conversation that is not fraught with tension. We can talk peacefully and respectfully to each other - it’s easier to be kind because the hostility is gone. I am not sure if the word “friends” applies but I would say the caring remains, and I am able to be supportive without taking ownership of problems and challenges. I am pleased to say that Brenda has become more than serviceably competent, even in the matter of her finances which she agonized over so profusely. I again thank you for all you did in helping us get through one of the hardest things either of us had to do. There is a peaceful life on the other side. I am glad to say that I am quite pleased that we can both live our lives now without the rancor and animosity. You did a yeoman’s work on our behalf and I, for one am grateful."

Mark H.